dtbwh Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend (we dated for roughly six months) for 15 days now. Afew weeks before the breakup, she backpacked in Europe with a girlfriend of hers, and stated she felt a sense of independence upon returning. She ended things between us, stating she was confused about what, if anything, she wanted in terms of a relationship. Neither of us have ever cheated on the other. I have given my feelings for her a lot of thought over the past few weeks, and, while I realize part of what I am feeling is simply heartache, I truly love her and would like to try to get back together with her. Given that, I do not want too seem apathetic towards her, but have not contacted her since the breakup. Is there a time when I should contact her, or would I be better off hoping that she chooses to contact me at some point in time? Thank you! (I am WILLING to risk being hurt and starting the grieving process over by contacting her, but want to make sure it is actually something that COULD be more beneficial than harmful for me).
asdfghjkl123 Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 contact her! chances are since the break up she's been thinking a lot about you. for all you know she could be feeling the same way, so be the first to make the move
pantheralum93 Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 Hi dtbwh-I am in a similar situation myself. Me and my girlfriend broke up nearly a month ago now due to her citing "personality differences". I immediately went into NC mode and did not try to reach her for a week and a half. I then sent her a text message but she did not respond. I would suggest that you respect her wishes and not contact her. Let her contact you. If she wants the relationship she will find her way back to you. That's the mentality I'm taking. Just trying to get on with my life as I do have to prepare for the fact that she may not. Ultimately it's your decision, but do you really want to put yourself thru the pain?
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