budd98 Posted July 5, 2007 Posted July 5, 2007 My g/f is 25 years old and asked for space a month ago. I have given it to her, but I still would like to be with her. Anyways, one of her guy friends talked to me the other day and told me he dated her 7 years ago. He said he liked me and that I need to stop chasing her if I wanted things to work. He said the only way is to to break up with her or act like you don't care and she will chase me. Her uncle told me the same thing. I talked to this guy for awhile and told him I loved her, but that I have dated many beautiful women and she is the most drama. So that night we were at a big outdoor concert and she was there with her friends and I ignored her. She was really drunk and ignored me too. Then she sends me mean text's saying Fu** You! I walk over to her and she says "I saw you making out with a girl." Which was a total lie. Then we talk and she starts saying mean things to me. When the concert was over a couple girls came over to me and she kept staring at me 5 yards away. She left with her friends. She called me a couple times and yelled at me. Then the next day she texts "Hate me? I dont remember talking to you." And also accusing me of hooking up. I ignored them all and she kept texting and calling. Then making up reasons to text me, like my dog is hurt and I don't know what to do or I have a ? about some shorts you bought me. She also just keeps accusing me of hitting on chicks. Last night I texted her back for awhile and she says its the worth 4th ever and she hates life. So my questions are, why do you think she is acting this way? What do you think she will do if I ignore her more or break up with her, even though I want to be with her? Any comments/suggestions would help me out. Thanks.
LoveLace Posted July 5, 2007 Posted July 5, 2007 You were giving her the space she asked for, then she yells at you for it, and accuses you of cheating ,etc? She doesn't exactly sound mentally stable, at least not when it comes to relationships...break it off. If you've dated many beautiful women as you say, you can easily date more, and I"m sure there's plenty who wouldn't be so wishy-washy. This gal sounds like too high maintenance and complex. That or she just likes to play games, which is exhausting and pointless after a while. Dump her.
jcster Posted July 5, 2007 Posted July 5, 2007 She sounds utterly exhausting. Why do you want to go out with someone who acts this way?
Hestia Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 yes she is a drama queen and she likes to play games with you. she wants your attention and she wants you to reassure her that you love her by chasing her all the time. have a serious conversation with her and tell her that her attitudes need to change.
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