Jmina Posted July 5, 2007 Posted July 5, 2007 It's been 2 months since we broke up. you seem to be getting on really well with your life.. which i have mixed feelings about. i dont want you to be sad and unhappy at all...but i hate that your so happy and im so miserable.your happy even though you said it was going to take you a long time.. you obviously dont want to be my friend, so that is something i have to deal with now too... i would never tell you any of this... you dont deserve to know my deepest feelings anymore... since you ripped my heart out... im so angry at you, im so hurt, i thought we were going to be okay...even as friends...but you were so cold and distant when we swapped things..you didnt even ask how i was...you didnt wish me anything before you left, and to make it worse you brought that person in the car with you...was that to rub it in my face?????? a week and a half ago when we setteled things you were kind and you were being nice to me,you said i think we will be able to be friends much sooner.... because you loved me as a person and as a friend right?...now your so cold ...i havnt done anything, i havnt even spoken to you.. guys how do i get over my ex??????? we are in NC ..we spoke about 2 weeks ago, and sorted alot out and we both felt much more peaceful after that...and then just a few days ago only to swap stuff...in between there has been no contact and there wont be for a very long time now... it is SO HARD i want this rollarcoaster to be over!! i day dream of going missing...just to see if my ex would even care ergh help? i just want to stop my ex controlling my thoughts!! Thanks Jmina
azianpride143 Posted July 5, 2007 Posted July 5, 2007 The hardest part is when you love someone so much and they have moved on as if you never existed. You wonder how they could have gotten over you so fast. But he did and he has moved on. He also flaunted his new woman in your face. NC is good. But you need to grieve, bury the hatchet, pick yourself up, and go on with your life. It's hard but once you heal and once you see what kind of person you were with once. You will realize how better off without him you are. Look within you. Improve yourself. Channel all that negative energy into something positive. If you don't you will attract the same kind of person you had before. Then the pattern will continue. Learn from your mistakes and see how you can make it better the next time around. Let go and let faith guide you through the next chapter of your life. Take this experience as a learning one to prepare you for the next...
funkybassplayer Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 guys how do i get over my ex??????? we are in NC ..we spoke about 2 weeks ago, and sorted alot out and we both felt much more peaceful after that...and then just a few days ago only to swap stuff...in between there has been no contact and there wont be for a very long time now... it is SO HARD i want this rollarcoaster to be over!! i day dream of going missing...just to see if my ex would even care Quote. That is above is far from no contact. You will get better, i felt all you did, and the same, she just moved to another guy, like i wasnt even ever there. Well good for them, they dont have a heart-bottom line. We do, you will get better, but you have to do it alone, and closure will come from within after a period of time. Then you will in your heart let them go, and move on. it takes time, pain and will, but you will get better, and you wont be dragging emotions around from relationship to relationship. Be strong.
SadForever Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 it sounds like you are handling things well and you should give yourself credit. you're still in the most painful stages - getting your stuff back is so hard and i feel for you. it was very inappropriate for him to bring *her along. hopefully no-contact will work for you once you wrap up those last details. good luck.
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