beeper107 Posted July 4, 2007 Posted July 4, 2007 I have a friend who I used to work with, and she has a friend that she thinks is a good match for me. I looked at his myspace page; she sent him mine. I casually messaged him last week just to say hi and commented about something on his page. I haven't heard any kind of response from him, and I'm just wondering what my next step should be. I was planning to give him a week to respond, then I have some choices: 1) Email our mutual friend and say that I messaged him with no response, then ask if she wouldn't mind to send him sort of a follow-up email. You know, something like, what did you think of so-and-so's myspace page? 2) Email our mutual friend and say that I messaged him with no response, then say that it doesn't look like it's going to work out. Thank her for trying. 3) Email him again and say that our mutual friend had said something to me about the possibility of us getting along. Then just casually say that I had messaged him earlier and wasn't sure if he got it or not, and I just wanted to be sure our friend had mentioned something to him. Right now, I'm kinda leaning towards choice #1. I realize it kind of puts my friend in an awkward position, because she may have to tell me something I don't want to hear. But, at the same time, I don't have to sit around and wonder why he's not messaging me back. What do you guys think?
high_boost Posted July 5, 2007 Posted July 5, 2007 has he read it yet? if he has, and its been a week... he does'nt like you. trust me. if he wanted to pursue something with you he would have replied. if he has not read it than quit worrying about it till he does. there is also the possibility of him being gay.
Steveto Posted July 5, 2007 Posted July 5, 2007 Well..if he is anything like me..I almost never check my myspace account..maybe once a week IF you are lucky..He might just have that account to keep in touch with a few people..that's the only reason I have it..most of my friends are in facebook. Anyway..are you sure she notified him of your myspace account? I think you shouldn't look too much into it. The next time you meet up with your friend...just say in passing.."you know, I never did get a reply from <insert friend's name here>". You should get your explanation there, but it is rude not to give you any response.
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