Author chichigirl Posted July 9, 2007 Author Posted July 9, 2007 OOPS, forgot she said she doesn't sleep with her married man... oh sure. THAT's rich. I'm sure they just hold hands and gaze at each other with pink hearts shooting out of their eyes.... *snark* I'm glad she left, it was turning me off my tunafish sandwich. Actually we do that, how did you know?? I am sure I would turn you off from eating riiiiiiiiight
Melissa277 Posted July 9, 2007 Posted July 9, 2007 Wow. She's screwing the neighbor woman's husband? How convenient is that! When he wants a quick bj all he has to do is go next door! Quicker and cheaper than a prostie. The man's efficient if nothing else. OH YEAH, this guy is really leaving his wife... MM famous words: I can't leave my wife til my kids are grown! I can't leave my wife until the house is paid for! I can't leave my wife until I retire! I can't leave my wife until the grandkids are older! I can't leave my wife because ... because ... um ... the dog is sick! Yeah, stick around, Chumpi, I mean, ChiChi, maybe he will leave one day and do his wife a favor. Just think! You might even get to change the man's diapers! Joy! OMG. No, she's not screwing the neighbor's husband (I'm laughing my butt off ... well maybe she is, I don't know.) But anyway, she's pissed 'cause she claims the neighbor's husband left the neighbor a long time ago and the neighbor still waiting for him to come back. And the neighbor was the "man of the relationship" ... whatever that means. Read her response to my last post. It doesn't make a damn bit of sense, but for some reason, she's mad at her neighbor because she claims her neighbor can't move on or some sh*t like that. Why it is any of her business is beyond me, but she seems to feel that it is. Don't forget these oldies but goodies from the book of ChiChi: I can't leave my wife because she's got me by the balls. (Not very original ... but used frequently). I can't leave my wife because she's a bitter bitch. (I believe this one to be a classic.) I can't leave my wife because even though I love her, I love you more. (WTF does that mean????) I can't leave my wife because married women feel some sense of entitlement. (God d*mn, I knew I felt something ... I just couldn't put my finger on it.) Hahahahahahahaha! :lmao:
Melissa277 Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 he doesn't want a nagging bitter bitch of a wife waiting for him when he comes home. geez. Some of you need a reality check QUICKLY Um, I know you're so much smarter than I am, but that does say nagging doesn't it?
Author chichigirl Posted July 10, 2007 Author Posted July 10, 2007 OMG. No, she's not screwing the neighbor's husband (I'm laughing my butt off ... well maybe she is, I don't know.) But anyway, she's pissed 'cause she claims the neighbor's husband left the neighbor a long time ago and the neighbor still waiting for him to come back. And the neighbor was the "man of the relationship" ... whatever that means. Read her response to my last post. It doesn't make a damn bit of sense, but for some reason, she's mad at her neighbor because she claims her neighbor can't move on or some sh*t like that. Why it is any of her business is beyond me, but she seems to feel that it is. Don't forget these oldies but goodies from the book of ChiChi: I can't leave my wife because she's got me by the balls. (Not very original ... but used frequently). I can't leave my wife because she's a bitter bitch. (I believe this one to be a classic.) I can't leave my wife because even though I love her, I love you more. (WTF does that mean????) I can't leave my wife because married women feel some sense of entitlement. (God d*mn, I knew I felt something ... I just couldn't put my finger on it.) Hahahahahahahaha! :lmao: you don't even make sense!!! I never even said some of those things. You like to make up stories I see. I have a good idea why don't you let your husband read the stuff you say on here and lets see what he thinks of you. Oh wait you won't do that because you can answer for him right? Or maybe you will just ignore what I just asked hmmm I wonder. some of you crack me up!!!! So answer me this how many hours a day do you sit on the computer talking **** like you do? Just curious. I will come back on later before I go to bed to see what you all have to say so I can get a good laugh.
smartgirl Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 All I did was ask a simple question and I get every other answer to questions I didn't ask. The question that I asked has nothing to do with my current situation because honestly mine is absolutely fine for the time being. The last time I posted about my situation was only a small piece of what really is going on with him. I understand being a mommy and a wife, we took vows blah blah blah. Women automatically start saying oh he would trash talk you in a second OF COURSE HE WOULD !!! I am not stupid, everything a guy works for and has would go down the drain but the truth is its not going to stop him from going back to her or someone else. Most of the reason why men will admit they did something wrong and they are sorry is because they got caught and are not willing to give up everything they have. So again my question is why would someone stay with a man or a woman that they were not in love with completely. Like I said this has nothing to do with me, I am just curious. Cut me a break. You are not just curious. You have an agenda and it is obvious by the other posts that you made. You purport to understand love, yet it is clear you don't. When you love someone for decades and understand them inside and out, you know they are human, that they make mistakes, that they are capable of learning from those mistakes and that at the end of the day, no matter how stupid they are capable of being sometimes they love you and don't want to live without you. It is about love, forgiveness, and taking the long view. Real love is capable of transcending a lot of hardship - from the death of a child, to loss of a business to an affair. Your anger is obvious. You are pissed that the MM's wife won't "let him go." Figure it out. If a man doesn't leave it is because he doesn't want to. He wants to keep the life that is really important to him and have some on the side to feel like a stud. Men leave their wives to start a new life with OW all the time. Those that don't, do so for a reason and it isn't that their wife has them by the balls. It is because they have discovered through the experience of an affair and being found out, that their wife truely loves them and understands them and is willing to give them a second chance when other's won't. The wife understands that her man is the same man she married, flawed and still dear to her.
Author chichigirl Posted July 10, 2007 Author Posted July 10, 2007 Cut me a break. You are not just curious. You have an agenda and it is obvious by the other posts that you made. You purport to understand love, yet it is clear you don't. When you love someone for decades and understand them inside and out, you know they are human, that they make mistakes, that they are capable of learning from those mistakes and that at the end of the day, no matter how stupid they are capable of being sometimes they love you and don't want to live without you. It is about love, forgiveness, and taking the long view. Real love is capable of transcending a lot of hardship - from the death of a child, to loss of a business to an affair. Your anger is obvious. You are pissed that the MM's wife won't "let him go." Figure it out. If a man doesn't leave it is because he doesn't want to. He wants to keep the life that is really important to him and have some on the side to feel like a stud. Men leave their wives to start a new life with OW all the time. Those that don't, do so for a reason and it isn't that their wife has them by the balls. It is because they have discovered through the experience of an affair and being found out, that their wife truely loves them and understands them and is willing to give them a second chance when other's won't. The wife understands that her man is the same man she married, flawed and still dear to her. I am angry? no sorry I am not. I am not pissed that she won't let him go, you don't even know what you are talking about. I asked a question that had nothing to do with my situation. The reason why I asked it was because I was reading some posts from women who have been cheated on and I was just curious to know why if a man has been "caught" cheating why would a woman take him back and then he goes out and does it over and over again, sometimes with the same woman. I just want to know that. Do you ever think that he doesn't love you but may stay in the marriage for other reasons. Some of you are so straight as an arrow by the book what an affair entails and that is not the case all the time. That is all I am saying.
OpenBook Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 In my opinion, that's MUCH more degrading and pathetic - taking the loser BACK - than a wife fighting for her marriage and taking back a wayward husband. So the same MM - one guy, I'm assuming - is a "loser" (zero chance of being worthy) to the OW, but a "wayward husband" (implying there's hope of redemption) to the BS??? I don't get it.
mopar crazy Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 I'm not even going to bother reading through this whole thread b/c I know you have already gotten some great answers. I apologize if this has already been asked. To the OP, have you ever been M and been cheated on? If not then you have NO CLUE what it is like to go through a cheating spouse. Especially when you have been w/ that person for many years and share children together. You may never understand why ppl stay in a M after infidelity but it's not your concern or your right to be judgmental on why a BS stays. It's THIER choice, it's their life.
JustBreathe Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 I am starting to wonder if Chumpi Girl isn't some 14 year old in computer class being very naughty and using the email instead of listening to teacher. No grown woman could be this incredibly vapid. Hmmm... I give Chumpi a big red "F" for her essay o' the day. Get off the computer before your mommy finds out you're surfing the net and not doing your book report!
NoIDidn't Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 ... I was just curious to know why if a man has been "caught" cheating why would a woman take him back and then he goes out and does it over and over again, sometimes with the same woman. I just want to know that. .... That is not what you asked. You didn't ask about a repeat offender. You simply asked about taking back a known cheater. Of course, given the responses you've been given, you now change the question. Typical. ETA: Given your line of reasoning, why is the "same [other] woman" taking him back too? Do you have the answer to that? Or is the OW's love for the MM just a better reason to take him back than the W's (love, marriage, possible children, extended family, and so on)?
IfWishesWereHorses Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 (God d*mn, I knew I felt something ... I just couldn't put my finger on it.) Hahahahahahahaha! :lmao: LOL, that's funny!!!!
Author chichigirl Posted July 10, 2007 Author Posted July 10, 2007 I will never understand why a married women who find that their husbands are cheating on them would want to stay with them. I read a lot about how the MM never really loved the OW but he really loves his wife. If he loves her so much why would he cheat in the first place? It is not always about sex either. Of course when the affair is found out most MM are going to going crawling back to their wives because the wives have them by the balls, thats not love. A wife can screw up a MM life for a long time. Thats a lot to think about for a MM. Thats I think every situation is different but the fact is a lot of MM do not feel a connection with their wives and therefore they cheat. You know they are not happy on some level but yet the spouse feels like they have won in the end because she got her/him back but for what reason? And for the ones who have men who get found out and then a month later go back to the OW, what are you thinking? Obviously there is something there that is making them go back to the same women they cheated on you with. I don't understand the thought process of some women, I just don't. You want to stay with a man who is obviously not 100% happy with you? ******************************************************* NoIDidn't Quote: Originally Posted by chichigirl ... I was just curious to know why if a man has been "caught" cheating why would a woman take him back and then he goes out and does it over and over again, sometimes with the same woman. I just want to know that. .... That is not what you asked. You didn't ask about a repeat offender. You simply asked about taking back a known cheater. Of course, given the responses you've been given, you now change the question. Typical. ETA: Given your line of reasoning, why is the "same [other] woman" taking him back too? Do you have the answer to that? Or is the OW's love for the MM just a better reason to take him back than the W's (love, marriage, possible children, extended family, and so on)? ********************************************************** I think you need to stopping listening to yourself and reread my original post Mrs. Know it all!!!! Because that is EXACTLY what I asked. I didn't change my question but nice try. Are you going to proceed to tell me that is not what I asked because you know it all?
NoIDidn't Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 I think you need to stopping listening to yourself and reread my original post Mrs. Know it all!!!! Because that is EXACTLY what I asked. I didn't change my question but nice try. Are you going to proceed to tell me that is not what I asked because you know it all? "And for the ones who have men who get found out and then a month later go back to the OW, what are you thinking?" The above is the only sentence in your OP that mentions "over again". Not the over and over and over again that you attempted to claim later. I don't know it all. I just know that you are attempting to reframe the question. You didn't ask it in the way that you are now claiming, plain and simple. Typical. Like I said before.
Author chichigirl Posted July 10, 2007 Author Posted July 10, 2007 "And for the ones who have men who get found out and then a month later go back to the OW, what are you thinking?" The above is the only sentence in your OP that mentions "over again". Not the over and over and over again that you attempted to claim later. I don't know it all. I just know that you are attempting to reframe the question. You didn't ask it in the way that you are now claiming, plain and simple. Typical. Like I said before. Typical what??? I love how you try to twist things!!! Ok I am sorry I put in an extra OVER.. Big freaking deal, man you are mentally draining ugh You focus on one thing and beat the crap out of it. How about trying something different like picking up on my typing or spelling mistakes. So going back one time to the OW is not as bad as 2 or 3 times going back? You are ridiculous!! Thats the same freaking thing!!
Ladyjane14 Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 Hmmm just so you know most guys hate know it alls. :lmao: I think you're fairly safe there, OP. I don't think you're in any danger of guys (or anybody else for that matter) assuming you "know it all".
NoIDidn't Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 :lmao: I think you're fairly safe there, OP. I don't think you're in any danger of guys (or anybody else for that matter) assuming you "know it all". LJ, leave her alone. Just because WE know she doesn't know it all, doesn't mean SHE does. SHHHHH!!!!!
Author chichigirl Posted July 10, 2007 Author Posted July 10, 2007 :lmao: I think you're fairly safe there, OP. I don't think you're in any danger of guys (or anybody else for that matter) assuming you "know it all". Oh that really hurt me:( I might cry myself to sleep tonight waaaaa I said MOST not all MOST, take a survey ask some men about that and get back to me. Oh maybe you are upset b/c you think you are the know it all of LS. hmmmmmmmm Is that at all possible? good night and thanks for the laughs ladies, I will be back soon so I can get some more laughs, thanks.... I mean thanks again because I already said thanks once and I don't want anybody pointing that I had already said thanks. See I caught myself, im getting good now!!! ****ing morons
Ladyjane14 Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 Mum's the word, NID. ...utterly charming though, isn't she???
NoIDidn't Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 Mum's the word, NID. ...utterly charming though, isn't she??? No, actually I find her rather unpleasant myself. :laugh: You on the other hand... :love:
IfWishesWereHorses Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 uhhh... it's the same guy Quote: Originally Posted by Seen_It_All In my opinion, that's MUCH more degrading and pathetic - taking the loser BACK - than a wife fighting for her marriage and taking back a wayward husband. So the same MM - one guy, I'm assuming - is a "loser" (zero chance of being worthy) to the OW, but a "wayward husband" (implying there's hope of redemption) to the BS??? I don't get it. HEEELLLLLLLOOOO!!!!:lmao: Yes it's the same guy, only one of the women doesn't happen to be in a lose/lose business realtionship with him!:sick: They are in it for LOVE:love::love:!!! SHOW ME THE LOVE!!!!! Where in this triangle do you see love??? PLEASE, PLEASE SHOW ME!!! I am trying so very hard to see it.
endless Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 I will never understand why a married women who find that their husbands are cheating on them would want to stay with them. I read a lot about how the MM never really loved the OW but he really loves his wife. If he loves her so much why would he cheat in the first place? It is not always about sex either. Of course when the affair is found out most MM are going to going crawling back to their wives because the wives have them by the balls, thats not love. A wife can screw up a MM life for a long time. Thats a lot to think about for a MM. Thats I think every situation is different but the fact is a lot of MM do not feel a connection with their wives and therefore they cheat. You know they are not happy on some level but yet the spouse feels like they have won in the end because she got her/him back but for what reason? And for the ones who have men who get found out and then a month later go back to the OW, what are you thinking? Obviously there is something there that is making them go back to the same women they cheated on you with. I don't understand the thought process of some women, I just don't. You want to stay with a man who is obviously not 100% happy with you? I think I know why the W takes MM back. All the right reasons but I don't understand how she could put up with all the feelings that come from staying with someone who she (W) knows does not love her the way he loves the OW. Must be painful. What if I (ow) know for sure that the BW and MM stay together mainly for kids? And if I know that the BW knows that MM loves me? She even made a comment to him that I am his true love.
Melissa277 Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 you don't even make sense!!! I never even said some of those things. You like to make up stories I see. I have a good idea why don't you let your husband read the stuff you say on here and lets see what he thinks of you. Oh wait you won't do that because you can answer for him right? Or maybe you will just ignore what I just asked hmmm I wonder. some of you crack me up!!!! So answer me this how many hours a day do you sit on the computer talking **** like you do? Just curious. I will come back on later before I go to bed to see what you all have to say so I can get a good laugh. Sorry little girl, but if you go back and read your posts ... you said them all. What are you in like 8th grade? It's all right there ... everything you said. Read it. Again you're concerned about the relationships of others ... when yours is totally f*cked up. Because you're a liar and a cheater, you need to feel validated and are p*ssed because no one will do it. Good luck trying to pry "your" MM from his W. If he loves you soooo much, what the he!! is stopping him? Oh yeah, the timing's not right. That's what I say about me and Brad Pitt. The timing's just not right. You insist that BS's who give their marriage a second chance are losers all the while you continue string along some poor b*stard who you don't love and has who has no clue that you cheat with a MM who won't leave his W. Who's the loser here? Hello???? I sincerely hope that you are like 14 (that's how you sound) because if you're not, you need some serious intensive counseling.
Melissa277 Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 Chubbi Girl is a troll. I was just going to say the same thing. This chick ain't right ... that's for sure.
Melissa277 Posted July 10, 2007 Posted July 10, 2007 Oh that really hurt me:( I might cry myself to sleep tonight waaaaa I said MOST not all MOST, take a survey ask some men about that and get back to me. Oh maybe you are upset b/c you think you are the know it all of LS. hmmmmmmmm Is that at all possible? good night and thanks for the laughs ladies, I will be back soon so I can get some more laughs, thanks.... I mean thanks again because I already said thanks once and I don't want anybody pointing that I had already said thanks. See I caught myself, im getting good now!!! ****ing morons My father used to say "Horses *sses always have to prove it to everyone." I think you've proved yourself chichigirl.
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