BlueSoul Posted July 4, 2007 Posted July 4, 2007 I feel that everyone I know has given up on me. Even my closest friends. Even my parents' friends has given up on me. Every time they see me, they would always put their arms around me, but now it's just neglectance. Also, even the person who I used to have to crush on has given up on me and consequently results in neglectance. It's very hard to live to this since I left my old secondary school and moved on to college. It's just stupid, everyting I had which made me, me, was gone, taken, by dumbluck (though I don't believe in luck). Don't really know what to do.
Rain4 Posted July 4, 2007 Posted July 4, 2007 Hey Blue, I don't know anything about the specifics of your situation, but could it be that the people in your life are simply reflecting back to you the fact that you seem to have given up on yourself? Sometime our family and acquaintances end up serving as mirrors to our own souls. I'm just wondering if your interactions with others would change if you chose to change how you see yourself. It wouldn't be easy, but I'm guessing you'd see things start to change. Have you considered talking to a counselor? My 2 cent circular logic, ~Rain~
Author BlueSoul Posted July 4, 2007 Author Posted July 4, 2007 Hey Blue, I don't know anything about the specifics of your situation, but could it be that the people in your life are simply reflecting back to you the fact that you seem to have given up on yourself? Sometime our family and acquaintances end up serving as mirrors to our own souls. I'm just wondering if your interactions with others would change if you chose to change how you see yourself. It wouldn't be easy, but I'm guessing you'd see things start to change. Have you considered talking to a counselor? My 2 cent circular logic, ~Rain~ I guess I have been acting like a weak soul all those time (being quiet for example). Some people told me that they never saw me smile. Those issues are of my responsibilities. But other issues, like not being able to see my best friends and gone in our seperate ways like going to a different college, were not my fault. Thay just happen.
Rain4 Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 I guess I have been acting like a weak soul all those time (being quiet for example). Some people told me that they never saw me smile. Those issues are of my responsibilities. But other issues, like not being able to see my best friends and gone in our seperate ways like going to a different college, were not my fault. Thay just happen. I suppose you could look at it as being someone's fault that things changed, but I don't see a reason why a person should. Life happens, and things change. People grow up and sometimes even grow apart. Is the reason for the change really as important as how we choose to handle it? There's nothing wrong with dusting off, getting up, and giving yourself permission to move on. Still my 2 cents, ~Rain~
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