smith604 Posted July 3, 2007 Posted July 3, 2007 Ok I have not posted on here in 2 mths but I have had a recent problem I really need help with! Ok back in march me and my g/f who lived with me decided to take a break but be friends, the next day she called and wanted me to come back home, on Apr 22 I meeted her and we got some food and I helped her pay some back bills then she said she would call me later and that was that her new bf from tx she meet online moved down here and I was kicked out now after lots of fights by email she started talking to me and wanted to be freinds, then a week later she cused me out and said never email her again so I stoped! over 1 mth went by and the last 2 weeks she has called me every other day while he is at work and said we should hang out and not to worrie about the past and even told me when he is at work so we could meet I told her no and that was that! She called me a few days ago and said thing between them are great but she was streesed over family and money problems and I told her sorry mabye another day I will meet you she sounded sad and said you just dont wanna see me do you! and everytime she talks to me she sound very happy to talk to me and really wanting to meet me again! now the problem is it is makeing me feel sad again about not beeing with her and I finnally was getting over her and not thinking about her anymore! Now I am finding myself wishing I was with her again? help me someone anyone! I forgot to say after 1 and 1/2 mths of them living together they got married and she said it was becuse of her parents?
funkybassplayer Posted July 3, 2007 Posted July 3, 2007 god it sounds like shes using you to pay bills for her. If i were you cut her out and try to move on.
meleeda Posted July 3, 2007 Posted July 3, 2007 Sounds like she just wants you for paying her bills, never never settle for second best. Move on and find someone who respects you, I know its hard but trust me you will have your self respect in tacked and you will look back at this experience as just experinece.
sweetmeat Posted July 3, 2007 Posted July 3, 2007 Take it from a woman: SHE IS USING YOU!! She is just keeping you around so she has a "fall guy". Besides she's married, and not because of her/his parents. That is a line of crap. Tell her to get lost!! This is what you need to tell her: You have chosen this other guy and now it is time for you to grow up and accept her choice. That you will no longer be her crutch/security blanket. Tell her to never contact you again and that if she does you will contact the police, say good bye, then turn and walk away-DO NOT LOOK BACK! Now go on with your life. Get rid of her phone number, email addy, home address, etc. You are much better than what she deserves. It will be her loss and later in life she will look back and see what she has lost.
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