larrysb Posted July 2, 2007 Posted July 2, 2007 I'm a very picky guy when it comes to girls. I move slow and cautiously, but when I find a girl that works for me, I know it and I will stick to it. 3 years ago I was with this really great girl, and then things got bad and it ended. She ended up going out with my best friend after that. Since then I was down in the dumps, it took me almost 2 years to care about life again. I was basically just dragging myself around, always depressed, and I lost a lot of my friends and my popular, friendly image was ruined. I finally found myself able to forget about her and was beginning to rise rapidly back to the great life I had. Just a few weeks ago, I finally found a girl that seemed to be absolutely meant for me. We bonded really easily and our friends all thought we would be so cute and perfect with each other. We went out a couple times and have had some great experiences together. But on our last date, almost a week ago, her best friend called who she hadn't seen in weeks. She asked if we could go see her. Long story short, we picked her up, our date plans changed to include her. This girl was very bubbly around her and they were having a great time. I stood off to the side most of the evening, with no idea what they were talking about, but trying to cut into the conversation and add input when I could. Later in the evening, her friend said "I kinda ruined your date, didnt I?" I responded comically with a smile; "Yeah, you did." It was all taken the wrong way... Her friend suggested she could just get dropped off at the girl's house for awhile so we could be alone. The girl seemed okay with it and she was still bouncy when we were alone. But since then, she just doesn't seem to want to talk to me. The next day I find out from one of her other friends that the girl thought I was kind of a jerk to her best friend that night... I'm always a sweet guy, but she pulled that crap during one of our dates and I couldn't control my feelings. I called and talked to her about it, saying I had hoped it would just be us and I apologized for acting like an ass. She said she understood and agreed we would have to hang out sometime alone again. I asked if several times if she was upset with me, and she said no. I've called her twice since then, she hasn't been home both times and hasn't called me back. I have seen her around the pool a few times and we've talked there, but not about what happened that night. This situation is tearing me up. I've been in many relationships in the past with some nice girls, but this latest one has definitely been the most sensational. I don't want to screwed this up. I won't be able to see her for almost a week now, because of holiday plans. Hopefully with that much time to cool off, we'll be able to get back together some night and act like this never happened. I won't be able to take another hit if things don't smooth out....
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