Og fool Posted July 2, 2007 Posted July 2, 2007 Well the wife has hired an attorney, gotten the forms to fill out, told me she wants a divorce, etc. Here is the weird part we may have to live together for a year or more till our house sells. Neither of us can afford to move out till it sells. So it has been 2 months since she told me she wanted the divorce and we still do everything together. I mean we sleep together, shower together, eat together, go on the boat together, had the best sex of our lives on Saturday. If she doens't like/love me anymore and just has to be out of the marriage then why are we behaving like this. I finally have gotten in the mindset that it is over but we are still "acting" like we are staying married. What am I suppossed to do??? Neither of us are interested in anyone else. Do we just live this way till the house sells and then boom go are seperate ways. Is there any slim chance she may start to appreciate me again and call it off?
Snuggle Tiger Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 Wow, 67 people have read your post, but not one reply? WTF? On the other hand, you were not exactly following the advice people were giving you, but the way I see it, you are in a different spot than a lot of people have been. Did you get the book? Are you reading it? Are you following its advice? If so, maybe its working. Maybe she thinks if she takes the sword of Damocles away that things will go back to the way they were, and she may be right. Don't sell your house, because once that barrier is gone, sometimes pure momentum will make sure the divorce happens. If you are no longer under the same roof, you lose pretty much any chance of showing her she is making a mistake. Good luck, and keep posting! -Snuggle Tiger
hope4best Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 You never know what may happen, give her plenty of space. It sounds like she misses her single lifestyle. Go out with friends and try to stay busy. Maybe she just needs some time to figure out what she really wants, maybe not. What ever happens, take care of you!
Woggle Posted July 8, 2007 Posted July 8, 2007 Move out of the bedroom and sleep in seperate beds. If she wants a divorce she gets everything that goes with it which includes no intimacy. Treat her like a roomate that can't move out yet. Date other people as well since she no longer wants to be with you.
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