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After 2 months of NC, she makes contact, asks me to dinner...


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Okay,

 

 

I need feedback here on what to do. She has texted me all weekend. Saying she is sorry for hurting me and misses me as a friend. I was cordial but formal. Acting like it really doesn't matter, but that she should have told me you had a dude or you didn't like me, I would have moved on myself. She then asks me to call her if I ever want to meet for lunch or dinner. She wants me to call. I said to her, "You call me, I won't bite you". So I don't know what to do, should I call and say okay lets meet and see how it goes? Or should I let her call me after not contacting for a while again. I don't want this to sound like a game, but I just don't feel comfortable calling someone who dated somebody two weeks after she broke up with me. What should I do?

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She laid her cards out on the table and covered her bases with the "as friends" disclaimer. If you must talk to her, tell her that you are not comfortable with the idea of going out with her - maybe one day, but not now - say 'thanks but no thanks' and leave it at that.

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