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curious about this.. when did that rush of blood strike you..would appreciate comments.

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1952..i remember it like it was yesterday

 

even though i was a frog at the time. i believe reincarnation

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Hmmm, just this morning, if I recall. Very casual.

 

Wait... are you talking about with another person??? Now, that's got to be at least 20 years ago...

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GEEZ, you guys! For me it was about a month or so ago; rebound sex after my painful split from my LTR. It was a gorgeous guy who came onto me who is available for rebound sex, and not a prospect for trying to have a LTR. At this time, it's a good thing for me, but I am not returning his phonecalls or seeking him out. It helps me to know that this shallow relationship with a handsome and well-hung guy is available during these hard times, though.

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Never. I don't do that.

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Hmmm, just this morning, if I recall. Very casual.

 

Wait... are you talking about with another person??? Now, that's got to be at least 20 years ago...

 

:lmao: That was funny, Trimmer.

 

About 16 years ago for me.

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polywog, I hope that your shallow relationship with this handsome , well-hung guy does not give you some STDs so you'll think twice about random casual sex. Have more respect for yourself please. I go to gyms and keep busy with myself. Its all mental.

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*thinks back to the bathroom of flight 614*

 

Never have I wanted to more in my life than this very second.

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thats it pink amulet doesnt exist

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About a year ago.

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not recently enough. not by a long shot. I hate being shy.

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thats it pink amulet doesnt exist

 

*raises eyebrow*

 

I don't usually respond to sentences without any structure, or punctuation but do you ever bring any thing worthwhile to this forum? :confused:

 

Touche, I just can't see you in this light!

 

What were the circumstances? :D:D

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Not my sort of thing.

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curious about this.. when did that rush of blood strike you..would appreciate comments.

 

If by "random" you mean totally unplanned (i.e. no booty calls or online hookups) , then it was just over a couple of years ago, before I met my ex. I was in a pub in London reading a book I'd just bought, and a few women on a hen night/pub crawl came and sat down near to me. One of them asked me what I was reading and we got chatting. When it came time for her friends to leave, she said she'd just stay a short while and catch them up. As soon as her friends had gone, she was all over me. She looked a bit like Uma Thurman but not as attractive, and I was quite drunk so I was up for it. After a while I suggested we get a cab and stay over at a nearby 2nd rate hotel, so she called her friends and lied that she was feeling tired and going back home, then we got to the place and had pretty good sex most of the night and again in the morning. I then took her number and left. Never spoke to her or saw her again.

 

The book turned out to be a great read too.

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Never. Strangers don't turn my crank.

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Why should I say anything. Just to have the the cyber moral police brand me an STD carrying pervert? polywog was it good for you? :laugh:

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Haven't had it yet. I'm just way too uptight. I'm not the type of person that can flirt with a random guy I don't know let alone have casual sex.

 

I see nothing wrong with it, I don't have strict morals. Actually my morals are pretty darn loose, I see nothing wrong with casual sex, having sex for money, having a gangbang or orgy. It's just not in my personality. I'm too shy and I'm a "worrier". I would worry if the guy had an STD, or if I would get pregnant, or if he could be a serial killer and murder me after he had sex with me, or stalk me...

 

I'm the type of person that has to think about something for a week before I do it. I have to mentally make a list of the advantages of doing something and disadvantages. I'm not a spontaneous carefree person that can just go out and have fun.

 

I'm also the super-responsible type. Having casual sex doesn't seem like a responsible thing to do. It kind of scares me to let go like that and I don't think that I ever could.

 

I see nothing wrong with it, I just couldn't do it myself because I worry too much and I'm very inhibited. I'm even inhibited about dancing in public or eating in front of a guy, I would feel very uncomfortable having sex with someone I don't know. I'm just very self-conscious.

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Few years ago. Some guy at the gym, we tried talking but it was painfully obvious we have nothing in common. However, I still admired his body (soooo hot) and just wanted to do it. So I asked him if he is ever home alone and he invited me over to his house the next morning and you know...... :bunny:;)

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Haha, I love it BlueEyedGirl ;)

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Haha, I love it BlueEyedGirl ;)

Me, too... I have this image of them sitting there, awkwardly silent, each kind of looking around thinking, "OK, well, talking clearly doesn't work. Wonder if we have anything in common..." And suddenly, the light goes on!

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