Tranzphasic0 Posted June 30, 2007 Posted June 30, 2007 this is abrupt..on wednesday my gf went to a party where supposedly her ex was going to be..but she didnt want him to be there and she got in a fight with her friend over it and then they went anyway...then at 12 am i called to see what happened and some guy picked up the phone and said that she didnt feel so good or something so she was going to stay over at a someones house..but she would not get on the phone..then it beeped and stuff and the battery died! then..nothing! she stopped answering my texts phone is out of batteries i guess..she hasn't been on myspace..i checked if she even logged on this site, hasnt since wednesday i should call her parent to see if shes there..she usually goes to her parents house..but i dont want to pry..i wonder what it is? maybe she and her ex..??? do you think it could be??
Krytellan Posted June 30, 2007 Posted June 30, 2007 This was Wednesday and nothing since? If I told you what I thought happened, you would be sick. No one does something like that and then disappears for 2 days if they respect you. Whether or not you two talked about the ex thing, if I EVER went to a party and my gf knew my ex would be there (first of all, I would probably go with my gf, but that's a different issue), I would make sure I called as soon as I was leaving the party, because it's respectful and I wouldn't want her wondering or even worrying about what was going on. And I sure as hell wouldn't put myself in a position to have to stay there. I mean, that's basically screaming to your gf I'M SCREWING SOMEONE WHILE DRUNK. Or at least that's what their understood thoughts would be on it. Wow, tread carefully.
prism23 Posted July 1, 2007 Posted July 1, 2007 The only part that seems odd to me is the fact you STILL haven't heard from her. There is a very good chance that she really did feel very sick at the party, and that she didn't come to the phone because she was puking/asleep/etc. Also... even though her ex was there, the fact that she DIDN'T want him to be there (unless there are more detials we are unaware of) seems like enough of a reason to trust her to me. Just because he was there doesn't mean something happened. I honestly, in this situation, would assume that she was probably feeling sick and stayed over somewhere. I would call her parents house and ask for her - if she really is sick, maybe she is in bed there and doesn't have the energy to get online, etc. Or she's been super busy. I think you are overreacting a little bit... Trust her! (uneless there is a past reason not to
Author Tranzphasic0 Posted July 1, 2007 Author Posted July 1, 2007 i talked to one of her friends i happen to run into. according to what was said she got kicked in the stomach really hard while play fighting at a park after that party or something (i know, wtf lol) and lied down and wouldnt get up so then another friend took her to his house to stay over. lol. so i called this guy last night. he told me that shes there but she was asleep at the time. i said if shes still sick from something that happened wednesday night shouldnt she be at the hospitol? he said shes not. she slept all day and night thursday and now they (her, the guy and thier other friend) are working on some project thing for a contest and theyre trying to get in done by a dead line. o its wierd she hasnt been on the computer cos she is always on myspace, wow and this site and hasnt logged on any of them once so i guess if they are working on something they're really workin. or getting busy in other ways lol. i might have to drop by there and see what im getting left out of if i have time today lol. so anyway he was pretty curt and he didnt need to be that curt. but at least he said she says everythings all good and shall talk to me later this week or something lol this is so her lol so im not worried as i might be
Author Tranzphasic0 Posted July 1, 2007 Author Posted July 1, 2007 i just went by there and looks like shes there and everythings fine, just too busy to get in touch. looks like i overreacted. next time i wont bother lol.
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