alicatheartsu Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 Alright, your probably tired of hearing girls bitch and complain about a certain guy, i wish mine was different but hell its not. SO heres my story... May 12, this guy from my work and i started talking.. alot. i applied to the job because he was good looking and i wanted to get to know him better. And i succeeded at that. But the thing is, after a month of talking we have hung out several times. However, its never been alone. It's always with his "family" (which is his really close group of friends). I am not one to play games and for some reason whenever i go after a guy i never get him. But when a guy goes after me it works.. So as you may have already guessed. i was straight up and honest with the guy. I told him i liked him and was serious about it. he agreed saying i like you more than anyone really knows. But i want to be more than just flirtatious friends or whatever we are.. so i dont know if i should play hard to get... or is it too late now? i just dont know how to go about things to make him want to be with just me. And the worst part that makes me sad is that his first love well his only love was this really pretty blonde. She still calls him.. and im nervous since its his only love.. he will go back to her. He was the one who broke up with her.. but still.. he is a great guy with drive and close close friends.. he's so perfect for me its almost scary.. what should i do? should i say look.. i am willing to make this work before i leave for college if you are.. if not im going to give the guys ive dismissed because of u a chance.. or should i just make myself a challenge.. but how? please help thank you <3
Krytellan Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 i applied to the job because he was good looking and i wanted to get to know him better. And i succeeded at that. Right here you're already in a bad position. You took a job just to meet a guy? Why not just talk to him? You don't even know him and you have planned your life around him. This very likely is not going to turn out good for you because he already owns you. The fact you would do that, to me, is concerning.
Author alicatheartsu Posted June 29, 2007 Author Posted June 29, 2007 it was at a hollister i already had 3 friends working there.. he quit and i still work there.. so it was more of a bonus.. i was thinking about it for awhile
Raspberry Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 It's not really complicated. If he's into you, he's calling and wanting to spend time with you....and that means alone. Group things aren't dates. He's not 'stepping up to the plate' and making it happen with you, thus...he's just not that into you. He knows you like him as more than a friend, you have made that clear. Now if he's sincerely interested in a relationship, it is something you would know because he'd be calling, you couldn't MAKE him stay away. It doesn't sound like he's really into you, sorry.
kymberann Posted June 30, 2007 Posted June 30, 2007 What gets me is that you think he is so perfect for you. I hate to tell you there is no such thing, especially since you don't really know the guy. Just take your time. If it happens it happens, if not no great loss. Best!
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