Crazy sister!! Need to vent!!

[Individual3]

On Monday, my boyfriend's (together 10 months) sister called us at 10:30 at night whining and complaining about how desperately she needs to move in with me and my boyfriend. When I told her I did not want to live with her she:

 

• Pointed out that we are not married so my opinion doesn't matter
  
• Said that blood always wins over water
  
• Yelled at me and called me a selfish person
  
• Caimed the right to live with my BF because they are related
  
• Had the nerve to say she WILL get what she wants
  
• Openly accused me of trying to keep her out of my BF's life

The reason she wants to move in with us so badly is because she does not want to have to move to another state. Their dad is moving pretty soon and she wants my BF to take care of her now. What is funny is that she is his OLDER sister! She still lives at home with their dad. She also does drugs. My BF and I got into a huge fight about this. I don't know what to do.

[ddnnee]

you know, if i had a gf and her sister wanted to move in with us, i wouldn't mind.

[Kelso]

Well - Maybe you should give it a chance. If not, your bf is just gonna get pissed. Remember that she is his sister and he probably cares about her a lot.

 

I can understand your point of view though. I once dated a twin. It was quite difficult. When we wanted to have some space for ourselves - her twin sister was always there. Couldn't watch a whole movie together without her in the other half of the sofa. It was annoying at times. The worst part was that her sister (even though quite attractive) wasn't interested in seeing anyone right then and it was like dating two persons at the same time. But of course without the sex and kissing with her sister

 

But like I said - give it a try.

[jcster]

I would hold your ground. Like you said, his sister is older than him, still lives at home and does drugs. If you let her move in with you she will never, ever move out. It might cause a few fights with your boyfriend, but if you don't have those fights, you'll have them later and it will be much worse. Tell the mooch to look elsewhere, and tell your boyfriend that your line has been drawn in the sand.