accountnata Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 My girlfriend (24) and I (27) recently broke up about 2 weeks ago. We had it out pretty bad, exchanged a few choice words and were never supposed to talk to each other again. Well we kind of had to in that I had some stuff of mine over her house, I called her to arrange getting it back and we began talking again and apologizing. We both decided that we would like to try to work things out and get back together. The problem is I want her back, I would take her back right now. However, she has said to me she wants to make sure things will work out first and make sure there is no trouble before we go out again. Which I can partially understand, but at the same time I feel strung along. I just want a simple serious answer so I can move on if I have to. She calls me all the time, tells me she loves me, gets jealous of who I am around, the normal stuff that would hint towards feelings being there. But if the feelings are there, why hold this off? I want the peace of mind knowing that she is mine and vice versa. I don't wanna be strung along as some backup guy, or as a guy that as long as she pretends to be into will do nice things and favors for her. I have recently confronted her about it because I was starting to assume we were back together based on certain comments she had made saying we were together. However, when I questioned her as to our official status she simply said I want to wait and see how things go. I then asked her if she can give me a serious response and she said no, I am having fun with you, you are easy to mess with; in a joking manner, but obviously to avoid giving an answer. now if she wasn't telling me she loved me, calling me all the time, and wondering who I am with, I would get the clue that she doesn't want anything. But in this case she acts that way but says shes not sure yet. Whats the deal? Any advice, opinions? Ladies?
todreaminblue Posted July 2, 2007 Posted July 2, 2007 You have every right to ask for an answer, so you know where you stand and the truth is.... how will you or her know if everything is going to work if you dont work at it, there is no knowing before hand if it will or it wont....she has to give it a go with you or if she doesnt want to try to let you go. She might not be intentionally stringing you along but basically she is.If she wants just friendship she should just say it, the messing with you bit that she said, wasnt really funny considering your feelings on the matter. good luck and all the best.....todreaminblue
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