whichwayisup Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 I don't think A/C meant your daughter, he's meaning the situation that's occuring now.... Don't leave LS. You need this place.
Author IWALH Posted June 28, 2007 Author Posted June 28, 2007 You need to leave him alone. I know you don't want to hear that, and I know you want HIM to choose, to tell you "yes it's over, or yes, we're still together" but I honestly don't believe right now he is capable of doing either which is why you've not heard from him. His silence right now IS your goodbye...If I were in your shoes, that is how I would take it. Who said I haven't heard from him? This is just ridiculous. I am not going to continue to post on here. I am done letting God KNOWS WHO read my posts. And I am going to do what I feel in my heart is right to do. Whatever anyone thinks is their prerogative. I am still going to trust him. Think/Say what you will. Peace.
child_of_isis Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 Understandably, you both are angry. But, the anger is, in real life, toward the male. You both are just taking it out on one another. If you could just get together and redirect and focus that anger into something positive for both of you. If she said, "enjoy the kill", it sounds as if she may be trying to get his butt out of the house but he doesn't want to go. Most likely he is talking major trash to her, crying, begging and who knows what else. He probably just figures that he can pick up the pieces that is left of you later on. I am not trying to hurt you, but this is the way it works. The sooner you come to an awakening of the truth, the sooner you can heal and move on.Right. Become best friends with the woman who just called me a "tigress trying to leave my scent on the lion?" Become best friends with the woman who told me to "enjoy my kill?" The kill that I "preyed upon?" Because yeah, I've just been hunting him this whole time and finally leaped in for the kill. IT'S ALL MY FAULT, ISN'T IT???? I'm just a regular f*cking siren luring married men in, aren't I??? Oh and that's NOTHING compared to the things she said/insinuated about me the night before. Not even close.....
scaredinlove Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 IWASH if you want to post here than do it don't let they run your life! If want to stay in the affair or wait for him be sure to hold on because it is a bumpy bumpy ride. I haven't endend my affair and the W knows about me, she is putting all the pressure she can to make him end it. He is on the fence and it is a long story but I decided to stay and wait out. You can do it but keep away from her and try to keep it cool. Let them deal with their marriage......You seem very upset ,that is not good for you.. Good luck girl.
Art_Critic Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 This situation sucks and I do not know what lies ahead, but as long as I have my beautiful little girl my life is in no way "messed up." And how dare you suggest I have messed up my life?! This proves my point.. You are NOT thinking straight.. No where in my post does it mention your daughter.. and I would also never think that having a child is a messed up thing. Having a child is the most precious thing that happens in this messed up world today.. I don't know a single parent that would have it any other way AFTER the child is born.. So when I said you have messed up your life I wasn't referring to her... and how dare I ??? You posted on a public web forum .. that is how dare I...
Author IWALH Posted June 28, 2007 Author Posted June 28, 2007 and how dare I ??? You posted on a public web forum .. that is how dare I... You said I messed up my LIFE. She IS my life, so it is not messed up. And you are right. I did post on a public forum. That is the BIGGEST mistake I have made regarding this whole situation with him. But I am done making that mistake. I figured out how to enable PM's so if anyone wants to continue to talk to me, you can that way. Anything else that goes on with this entire situation will NOT be made known to billions of people around the world. Mark my words, this is the last you will see of me on this forum until at least everything has blown over. I am not giving anyone that doesn't deserve to know what's going on between him and I that satisfaction. If you want to PM me, go ahead, but that's the extent to which I will be involved on this website until all is figured out with this messy messy situation.
NoIDidn't Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 Who said I haven't heard from him? This is just ridiculous. I am not going to continue to post on here. I am done letting God KNOWS WHO read my posts. And I am going to do what I feel in my heart is right to do. Whatever anyone thinks is their prerogative. I am still going to trust him. Think/Say what you will. Peace. Its easy to assume that you haven't heard from him in this thread as you never mentioned that you did. WWIU made an easy mistake in thinking such. She's been nothing but kind and supportive towards you. Why blow up over an honest mistake? Whether you stay or go, on the forum or in the affiar, I wish you luck.
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