Chinook Posted July 6, 2007 Posted July 6, 2007 You're very welcome. You been there for me too this week
AngryHeartache Posted July 16, 2007 Posted July 16, 2007 Just bringing this back up. Having a hard time and also need "NC buddies" Anybody joining me?
BeyondThePale Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Well i will not bore you wit the whole long A** story but i stopped my attempts after she said that we did not mesh well and that after all the marrige discussions she all of a sudden was not into it. Just like that. After almost three years just like that. That was two months ago. I stopped calling. It only took about 4 days for her to contact me. Since then she makes it a habbit to call every few days just to check in. In two days it will two months since my ex told me she had feelings for someone else and wanted to pursue them. She still contacts me every few days and I had one temporary lapse of judgement where I met up with her for a beer and it put me back at square one. Since then I've only responded with "just leave me alone". She texted today saying she won't bother me anymore, blah blah blah and if I want to be friends I know how to find her. Anytime I consider texted back I remember when we were together and didn't know where she was at 2 am and tried to call incessantly and she didn't pick up the phone when she was out with someone else. Try to think of things like that. Good luck!
Slippy72 Posted July 17, 2007 Posted July 17, 2007 Anytime I consider texted back I remember when we were together and didn't know where she was at 2 am and tried to call incessantly and she didn't pick up the phone when she was out with someone else. Try to think of things like that. Good luck! That definitely does help, I've used it to my advantage a few times recently. Hang in there everyone!
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