Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 28, 2007 Author Posted June 28, 2007 LOL.. I looked this morning! That's how I know the picture was removed. Of course, this guy's picture may be in violation of AOL Terms Of Service. You know, the whole "You can't scare little kids" thing.... -tp hahaha me so cute
whichwayisup Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 I meant you'll look AGAIN. And again....And again........he he he... Seriously though, don't. It just doesn't matter.
Hestia Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 LOL your post just made my day Teacher's Pet! (it was the George Costanza bit lol) It cheered me up that somebody can actually laugh after seeing an ex with another partner. You're an inspiration and i hope my ex is as unlucky as yours;)
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 29, 2007 Author Posted June 29, 2007 Actually, my ex is quite lucky. She had ME in her bed for quite some time, and got to play with my yummy parts anytime she wanted. *determined smile* Confidence is a good thing. Remember, your EX is the one missing out on something! The way I look at it (now), she freed up my "yummy parts" for someone more deserving who will appreciate me (and them) more! -tp yummy parts?
Hestia Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 thats a very constructive advice. they are the ones losing our good stuff and letting someone better having the chance to appreciate it. still i wish my ex boyfriend dated george costanza, that would really make it better for me:p
This_Too_Shall_Pass Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 LOL.. I looked this morning! -tp hahaha me so cute *Frowns* You're not doing that again, TP. Or you serve time in the detention room, Teacher's Pet or not. And cute or not.
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 29, 2007 Author Posted June 29, 2007 *Frowns* You're not doing that again, TP. Or you serve time in the detention room, Teacher's Pet or not. And cute or not. How about a spanking? -tp hopeful
This_Too_Shall_Pass Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 How about a spanking? -tp hopeful Haha. No, maybe just a rap on your fingers. Along with 4 hours in the detention room. All alone. - TTSP Wouldn't want to be TP
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 29, 2007 Author Posted June 29, 2007 Wouldn't want to be TP And I wouldn't want to be anyone else. -tp except maybe jessica alba's obgyn
Raspberry Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 Who knows...all I know is, she hasn't been able to do better than me, and that feels going, knowing (as I already did know) that the breakup was actually beneficial to me, and a big mistake for her. It's really not for you to decide if who she has dated after you was "better" than you or not. Maybe she feels her boyfriends since have been better than you. If she felt it was a mistake to dump you, she would certainly have called or emailed at least by now? It's been a year since you broke up, I think it's time to stop pondering her. She has stopped pondering you.
doiask42much Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 I think of it as "idle curiousity". It's been satisfied. I know can't do better than me, and that's more that satisfactory for my ego. And, knowing I've done better with my life since then? Double whammy. -tp thinks "double whammy" is a stupid phrase. Just playing devil's advocate here. You don't know she can't do better than you, just that she isn't right now. Just sayin'.
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 29, 2007 Author Posted June 29, 2007 If she felt it was a mistake to dump you, she would certainly have called or emailed at least by now? I couldn't care less if she "felt it was a mistake" I don't want her back. Ever. I know how she treats people (not just me, but I saw how she treated others during our relationship)..... I never want to go back to someone like that... But... idle curiousity always gets the better of me. -tp curiousity didn't kill the tp
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 29, 2007 Author Posted June 29, 2007 Just playing devil's advocate here. You don't know she can't do better than you, just that she isn't right now. Just sayin'. No, I KNOW she can't do better than me. I know who she was with before me and I was a major improvement..... I also know the kind of person she IS, too. She'll never find a guy who loves (or in my case LOVE-D) her more than I did. I know *ME*. And I know that when I love someone, it's real, and it's total. She'll never find that kind of loyalty in a man again. -tp best in show.
alphamale Posted June 30, 2007 Posted June 30, 2007 No' date=' I KNOW she can't do better than me.[/quote'] well, everyone likes to think that, but.... I also know the kind of person she IS, too. She'll never find a guy who loves (or in my case LOVE-D) her more than I did. I know *ME*. And I know that when I love someone, it's real, and it's total. She'll never find that kind of loyalty in a man again. you're assuming that she was looking for love and loyalty....
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 30, 2007 Author Posted June 30, 2007 you're assuming that she was looking for love and loyalty.... Probably not. She has a pretty twisted set of priorities in life. She really does think (as she said to me in one of our last conversations) that she really doesn't want to "settle down" with just one man. -tp or, in layman's terms, "I wanna be a ho!"
Touche Posted June 30, 2007 Posted June 30, 2007 Can I change the subject for just a second? What the HELL is with your avvie, TP? Ok, I admit I'm drinking now, but isn't that TP's avvie? I was reading your posts and assuming it was TBF, and nothing was computing! I really thought I needed to cut myself off. (Am I THAT out of it..was that not TBF's avvie?) Why would you do such a thing? Quit trying to mess with my mind! And did I miss something?
Touche Posted June 30, 2007 Posted June 30, 2007 I couldn't care less if she "felt it was a mistake" I don't want her back. Ever. I know how she treats people (not just me, but I saw how she treated others during our relationship)..... I never want to go back to someone like that... But... idle curiousity always gets the better of me. -tp curiousity didn't kill the tp I had to comment here. I've always cited that very thing as one of the signs to watch for! (I bet everyone is so sick of me and my "signs" by now!) But really, I do say this a lot. You can tell SO much about a person by how they talk about their exes, family, firends, etc. You can also tell so much about how you see them treat employees, waiters/waitresses, anyone performing a service for them and of course friends and family. It's a HUGE deal. It really is.
Author Teacher's Pet Posted June 30, 2007 Author Posted June 30, 2007 (I bet everyone is so sick of me and my "signs" by now!) I dont think we could ever get sick of your signs. Or your avatar. -tp got milk?
Touche Posted June 30, 2007 Posted June 30, 2007 I dont think we could ever get sick of your signs. Or your avatar. -tp got milk? Oy vey! Be quiet. Touche' so you really like my signs?
Raspberry Posted July 1, 2007 Posted July 1, 2007 I don't think you can say you are "better" than someone she might not have possibly met yet. I do believe that she can find someone better for her, and you can find someone better than you. You are not the only man capable of great love and devotion, and perhaps she has found that or she certainly will.
AriaIncognito Posted July 1, 2007 Posted July 1, 2007 Why is everyone so hung up on his stating "she'll never find better than me". We basically ALL use this as a coping mechanism when someone has broken our heart. I know I've said it regarding my ex. Many of you out there have probably said it and/or had a friend say "oh he'll never find someone as good as you!" or whatever. It's merely a coping mechanism and is really not meant to be taken in the literal sense. fact of the matter is, if someone did indeed break up with us, it's because we weren't the right one for them, so then eventually the one they claim as theirs will be "better" than us in their eyes. Does it mean they are better, not necessarily, but they could be, because it's all a matter of opinion. One girl can look at two guys and think they are trash while another can think they are treasure. So anyway, why bust down this coping mechanism. Whatever works, works, right? We all need to boost ourselves in whatever ways possible in order to move on, and this is what TP and myself and others on this site do. Why jump on people for it? After all, we are here to help, not hurt right.
Touche Posted July 1, 2007 Posted July 1, 2007 I absolutely agree with Aria. I don't see how Raspberry's post was helpful in the least.
Author Teacher's Pet Posted July 3, 2007 Author Posted July 3, 2007 this is what TP and myself and others on this site do. Pssst... Happy "anniversary" (in 30 minutes) lol -tp what do you give a best friend on your "paper" anniversary that aint money? lol
doiask42much Posted July 3, 2007 Posted July 3, 2007 No, I KNOW she can't do better than me. I know who she was with before me and I was a major improvement..... I also know the kind of person she IS, too. She'll never find a guy who loves (or in my case LOVE-D) her more than I did. I know *ME*. And I know that when I love someone, it's real, and it's total. She'll never find that kind of loyalty in a man again. -tp best in show. You could be right about that one, but you seemed to be judging him as inferior to you based on appearance. I'm not trying to be unhelpful or criticize your coping mechanism; I'm sure you know what you're talking about when it comes to her and what she's like. You just seem very bitter still, and over someone who is probably not worth the aggravation.
Touche Posted July 4, 2007 Posted July 4, 2007 Because the whole post and his responses truly reveals his emotional immaturity. He's like...35 years old and living with Mom, right? He can't afford his own place? There are certainly areas that the original poster can be criticized, he's certainly not perfect and would certainly not be seen as a "gem" in many women's eyes. My point is glass houses, I guess. As far as my post being "not helpful in the least," if that poster reads the original post carefully, she will realize that the OP was not asking for advice or help. He was simply using it as a way to bash his exgirlfriend because she's....gasp....moved on with her LIFE and a year after the breakup isn't still sitting around pining and bashing her ex! Isn't that a novel thought? First of all...are we reading the same posts? I never saw where TP said he lived with his mother. But I'm sure he'll tell us if he is. Secondly, you're not a nice person. The OP has every right to use this place to vent and "bash" his ex if he so desires. What is your problem with that anyway? What skin off your nose is it? Besides, he may very well be better than the current ex's b/f. How do you know that he's not?
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