number2 Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 Well, there it is. It's done with. The confusion has finally ended. A part of me still loves her but the greater part of me knows that whats done is done. If she really loved me, she would have given a **** about my needs. Like every other person, she tried to justify the reason. Nice try, heard it before. I miss her, I really do, but I know that missing someone is just the immediate emotion after breaking off a long term relationship. Things will get better, and life will go on. I wish it were easier. We had a lot in common -- humor, hobbies, love for animals, and much more -- but friends have these same similaraties. What sets friends apart from love is that two people in a relationship have these things in common, but also have a physical connection. There is something unsettling when you go to bed next to someone at night, and you know they have no desire whatsoever to engage in any intimate activity. Sorry, but I didn't move 180 miles away to live with a roomate in whom I sleep in the same bed with. She can make every excuse in the why she had labido problems and it doesn't change a damn thing. I know it wasn't about me, it was about her -- and she refused to fix it. I asked her to get help far to many times. There is no reason why two good looking, in great shape, young 22 year olds should be having these kind of issues this early! I can understand when you've been married for 20-30 years, but come on! Well -- I gave you every shot, let it drag on far longer than it should, but like any young man the feeling of rejection is never welcomed. I know you're hurting, i'm hurting too, but I can't justify staying with you any longer. Goodbye.
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