jjohns Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 I have been giving the oppurtunity to have sex with an ex. She has told me several times that she is 100% sure she doesn't want a relationship with me. I have done several things that she has not forgiven. I really just want to be her friend. She has tried this before and then has blamed me for it all She is very back and forth when it comes to me. She has sent naked pictures lately and has told me that I need to delete them because she doesn't think I should have them. I do not understand her. How can she go and do all of this and then back off and be the complete opposite. I honestly think it is a defense mechanism when it comes to me. She is extremely afraid to get close to me and I don't even try to do anything. She has brought up everything when it comes to sex. She tries to get me to do things just to test me. I always say no. What can I do about this crazy person. I know I should have nothing to do with her, but I can't do that. I need to find a way to tell her that she needs to just be my friend and quit trying to tempt me. I have told her this but it just doesn't work. What suggestions do you have? I am lost in this situation and all I want to do is try to make this work.
Bree Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 Well the way I see it: you don't want to have sex with her so don't. But let her know she needs to except that in order for you two to remain friends. Otherwise, if she can't respect that and you can't stand her tempting you, then you need to cut your losses, soon.
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