Author sao2 Posted August 21, 2007 Author Posted August 21, 2007 About a week ago I did send an email to her basically saying I still wanted to see her upon her return.(We had mentioned it, even at the height of breaking up). You can see essentially what I wrote http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t117844/13 Anyways today I got her response. She was a bit cool in her response, but she does want to see me when she returns. I'm a little wary . . . but hopeful. It is a tricky situation because even after she gets back it is still pretty long distance(still have to buy a plane ticket). Granted her situation will be much less stressful and she will at least have access to a phone. Anyways I don't think she would have me fly to see her in order to reestablish a breakup. So it turns . . .
Author sao2 Posted September 6, 2007 Author Posted September 6, 2007 So it looks like she bought her plane ticket home. She sent me an email telling me her plans and when she might be able to meet up. I let her know what weekends I am free and we shall see how things go. I will keep it posted.
Author sao2 Posted September 13, 2007 Author Posted September 13, 2007 Well, her intentions to meet were less involved than mine. Considering I would have to do significant travel (3 hour flight direct) to visit I hoped for a weekend together(I was not expecting to sleep with her, just her undivided attention). She thought it was too much to ask too soon. What else can I say, I can't go back to the situation if it is more frustrating than before so that is it. Completely walking away. This was this past weekend and while I am sad I am finally allowing myself to move on. Sometimes that last blowup, even if we lose our pride, is worth it for the chance to move onward.
hurtandbetrayed Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 Sao2, I know it is hard but staying away from something that is not healthy/happy for you is the best thing you can do for yourself. I appreicate all the amazing advice you've given me and I do hope that during this difficult time you treat yourself with the same kindness and forgiveness you give to others. Now what you have to steel yourself for and watch out for is if she realizes the gravity of the mistake she made and tries to mess with your head later on. You sound like a great guy so just be careful you don't sink back into anything less than what you deserve if this girl starts sniffing around again. There is a woman out there that will appreciate what you have to offer and not put you through this anger and hurt. Good for you for making the conscious effort to move on.
Author sao2 Posted September 14, 2007 Author Posted September 14, 2007 Thanks, the worst part is I know she has good intentions, she just doesn't understand and is too stubborn to consider anything outside of herself. She is going through a rough time and I know that, at the same time she pushed me away and as the "dumper" per say, I don't feel gets to be hesitant about any reconciliation. Oh well though. I really am done. The very next day I met a couple of new girls that I could like.
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