Misterseven Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 Here is the story. Party last night, got drunker than I ever have. I was having a good time. Than best friends GF came over, she was sober. (It isn't going where you think ) When I'm drunk I tend to...vent and gush and whine...among other things. So she talked with me. I told her I was interested in a friend of ours. We talk some more, next thing I know she is calling up said girl and says "I heard from someone that (I) likes you." Soon enough I start pestering her in my drunken stupor to let me talk to said girl. I tell her how I feel, sing her a few songs. Talk a little bit, fall over a couple times, play her a song on the piano....after we hung up. I left her a comment on myspace apologizing for my rude and inappropriate behavior. And some random happenings going on at the time. I was still drunk as ever. She left me one back saying not to sweat it, and that it was cute in a drunken sort of way. Now I am wondering how to seal the deal. I want to do it in person, and I want to do it ASAP. A group of friends and I are going to the beach tomorrow. I want to ask than, but I don't want friends to be around, nerves. And I don't want to go through an awkward day at the beach and not ask her. So I'm wondering If I should call her now. Or wait till tomorrow, ask her to walk with me and ask her than. Something along the lines of "Well you know how I feel about you, will you go out with me?" Here the term "going out, go out" means to be in a relationship. Not just out on a date. And I really haven't had a girfriend longer than a week. Hence the title.
crazy_grl Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 How old are you? You come off as at least 20-something, but in my experience people didn't ask the "will you go out with me" question after high school. If you are older than high school age, I'm not saying that to knock you down or anything. Just that if it was me and some guy asked me that, I'd feel a little awkward. And you should probably just ask her on a date. Unless you are in high school and that's common practice among all your friends.
Author Misterseven Posted June 26, 2007 Author Posted June 26, 2007 Yes, I am a youngin at 16. I was thinking to myself the same thing, how childish it is, but that is "common practice" however lame it is.
crazy_grl Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 Well, I think your idea to ask her to go for a walk with you would be sweet. From a girl's perspective, that's better than over the phone, but it does take more guts.
Author Misterseven Posted June 26, 2007 Author Posted June 26, 2007 Which is exactly why I want, and need to do it that way. I have such little confidence from over the years, I need to break out of that persona and take a step towards self-esteem. Confidence is key, and no one likes a coward.
Steveto Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 ok.. go up to her and say..look..Again, I'd liek to apologze for that night..I was silly and well...DRUNK..I'd like to make it up to you. She'll say..nah, that's ok..then you say..no, I'm serious..Tell you what..I got tickets to the ball game Sunday..totally free...you CAN'T say no to FREE... something along those lines..I don't know if you have a pro sports team where you are, but you can improvise.. she knows you are interested in her...if she still resists.:well..take it as a nice gesture that she is not into you.
Author Misterseven Posted June 26, 2007 Author Posted June 26, 2007 Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it. And I'm feeling good about tomorrow.
crazy_grl Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it. And I'm feeling good about tomorrow. Hope it goes well for you, but if it doesn't try not to let it get you down (easier said than done, I know). If she says no, don't let it ruin your day and don't pout or anything. No harm letting on that you're disappointed, but don't dwell on it. Hope for the best. Prepare for the worst.
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