Author SouthernT Posted July 2, 2007 Author Posted July 2, 2007 wow....I couldn't imagine that. The idea of ending up with a controlling man scares me alot.
laRubiaBonita Posted July 3, 2007 Posted July 3, 2007 well, here is another form of controlling behavior: * HAS to have things go his way or else he sulks, i.e. veggies HAVE to be chopped This way (aka MY way); if the GF is driving, we Must go this route, or it or it will be Really slow, and i will complain about it The ENTIRE drive; 'what would you, GF, like to do?"...... hmmm, that's ok, but this (my way), is better" * Makes the GF feel stupid, out of line, or guilty (alot, even in private), about speaking her opinion or her mind, or just general ideas. * in my experiences, these guys are only children, whose fathers... and themselves, berate and gang up on their mothers, and which are 'friends' with their dads.... whatever 'That['/I] means... but it does seem to instill this belief that women are inferio, and these men we dad proceed to treat their Gf's like they do their mothers.... aka, with little to nil respect.
PinkAngelStar Posted July 3, 2007 Posted July 3, 2007 I can completly comply with what laRubiaBonita is saying. Constant put downs, if another man smiles at you, he's coming onto you and you're interested in his mind so it's taken out on you. It's all about putting you down and making you feel like you can't get anyone else, so he's back in control, it doesn't stop until he feels he has you under his control fully.
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