Author Moose Posted June 29, 2007 Author Posted June 29, 2007 Thanks again everyone. I did talk to my parents. Everything is better.....they understand now what I meant, and that I do love my sis with all of my heart. It took a while to explain that to them, but they get it now. It comes in waves now.....I keep expecting her to call to see if she can come out for the weekend.....
amaysngrace Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 I'm glad you all have been heard and understood. It's very important to stick together now. It's sounds like you come from a good family. My heart goes out to all of you, especially your mom. XO
quankanne Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 how are your folks holding up? It comes in waves now.....I keep expecting her to call to see if she can come out for the weekend..... I don't think that part ever really goes away. When my brother died, my mom kept expecting calls on her birthday and at holidays, because he was so good about calling her then. And when she died, it took me a long time to go into her bedroom without the hope that I'd find her back there.
Author Moose Posted June 29, 2007 Author Posted June 29, 2007 how are your folks holding up?From what I can tell, pretty good actually. At first, Pop had a little remorse for it happening on, "his" watch. He's the one who drove her to the out of state appointment. He now understands that there wasn't anything he could've done to prevent this. Mom, at first, was broken badly, she's leveled out.....but I can tell it hits her from time to time as well..... Thanks for asking Quank!
alphamale Posted June 29, 2007 Posted June 29, 2007 everything in life has a positive and negative side....sorry for your loss.
love necessity Posted July 3, 2007 Posted July 3, 2007 I am very sorry to hear that you lost your sister. I have lost someone very close to me as well. I know it has been almost 2 mos. since you posted this, however after reading this I couldn't help but to comment on it. In all sense I can understand where you are coming from about your sister being causing many problems. However, I am quite sadden to read that you are only relieved because the "problem child" is gone so to speak. Unless of course you mean this as you are happier to know that she is in a better place, relieved of her pain and problems? I lost my Aunt Doreen. She raised me, then one tragic month before my 15th birthday, she passed away. I will never forget the sweet person she was, nor will I ever really forget the problems that she was faced with everyday of her life, but I will always remember the amazing memories that we had while she was here. And whenever I talk about her, I will only say "GREAT" things about her, because I know that's what she would've wanted.
Sassy Posted July 4, 2007 Posted July 4, 2007 Sassy, That was wonderful news!! I'm happy for you both! Thanks for your kind words, and I probably will take you up on that talk! Thanks again! Moose Thanks for the congratulations and remember anytime you need a friend send me a PM!!
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