msroddy Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 I was friends with this guy for a while. There was romantic tension, but the relationship was platonic. One day we kissed and it was like the flood gates had opened. A few months after that we were intimate. Sometime after that, I endured some emotional hardship and I disappeared, resurfacing on and off for about a year. I have very strong feeling for this guy, but I would only make an effort to speak to him when he contacted me, mostly through email. A while ago we rekindled our relationship and have been trying to have a romance, but it doesn’t seem to be working. He is a single father with physical custody of his kids. I have very deep feelings for him, but now that he has full custody, he says he doesn’t have time or money. I could care less about the money (I do well, own my home etc) but I want more time. I have met his children and spent time with them. We all get along fabulously (at least I think we do and he tells me we do.) My offer of time includes the kids and activities geared towards their interest. I really just enjoy being around all of them, but instead, what I get from him is a visit every 2 weeks or so. We usually have sex and then he leaves, claiming he has to get back to the kids. He talks about getting married, and claims to be in love with me, but I so low on his priority list, I assume this is all babble so he can keep getting easy booty. I’m guessing I'm getting played and that if I want a real relationship, I should just move on. Correct?
oavada Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 probably...i mean having sex and leaving right afterwards periodically every two weeks doesnt seem at all serious.
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