Bree Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 You know when your ex or boyfriend/girlfriend do something so wrong that you just have to find some sort of revenge. I want to hear what you guys have done to get back at them. Me, I took my ex tooth brush and made sure i scrubbed the inside of the toilet really good. He cheated on me while he was living with me so I figured if he was going to kiss another girl he could do it with his potty mouth. Pun intended. lol:D:laugh: Anyone else have some stories?
dbtmarley Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 You know when your ex or boyfriend/girlfriend do something so wrong that you just have to find some sort of revenge. I want to hear what you guys have done to get back at them. Me, I took my ex tooth brush and made sure i scrubbed the inside of the toilet really good. He cheated on me while he was living with me so I figured if he was going to kiss another girl he could do it with his potty mouth. Pun intended. lol:D:laugh: Anyone else have some stories? I have never done anything to a female, but I have had some pretty messed up things done to me. I had one ex disconnect the power to my apartment while I went away for a weekend. Nothing like spoiled meat in the freezer.
McFadden Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 Umm..just stopped talking to him lol. That wasn't mean but it seems to annoy him more than if I did a hundred pranks.
Lizzie60 Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 I find what you did really stupid... Unless you tell him what you did...what's the thrill .... if he never finds out... LOL I find those little 'mean' games very juvenile... the best way to get at him is to move on and be happy...
directx Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 I have to agree with Lizzie60. I think what you did was really low. However, what Lizzie60 says is much easier said than done. I guess i have always been too much of a coward to execute revenge, but actually I think it was my subconscience protecting me from becoming something I should not be and crossing that line. However, if I was to get revenge in some way with a woman, the next time I see her I would passive aggressive and mental. Say we were watching tv and a girl came on, I would just comment on the tv girl outloud. 'Holy crap, look at that butt! I have never seen on so good. All women should have one like that...' etc. I know its not that bad, but thats as bad as I would get.
Huntr777 Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 This is what a friend told me works every time...when an ex does something really messed up against you, do nothing but say the nicest things to everybody about them. Seriously, don't trash talk them, just tell everybody (particularly their friends) about what a great person they are. Then, when they hear about whatever prank they pulled on you, they'll think what a jerk they were to treat you that way when you have nothing but nice things to say about them. Think about it, works every time! And yes I have used this one by the way. H777
FormerNiceGuy Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 The best revenge on my ex was to just show her that you are living a happier life and to show her "without words" how much better you are. SUCCESS is the best revenge. I saw my ex the other day...and she was shocked. She sees with a new job that pays a helluva lot more money than before. She sees me with a new car, a new girlfriend...and with a new look. I just looked her and didn't have a single second to spend with her. Seriously, I can't explain it..but it's the best revenge. I showed her that i could succeed and be a better man and that I didn't need her. And I have a new girl that cares about me. stop thinking of ways to have revenge. Just succeed. and let them see you succeed. Make them be silent. Her face of shock was priceless.
Trialbyfire Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 My best revenge was to let Karma deal with him. Man, she is wicked mean...
cutegirl Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 The best revenge on my ex was to just show her that you are living a happier life and to show her "without words" how much better you are. SUCCESS is the best revenge. I saw my ex the other day...and she was shocked. She sees with a new job that pays a helluva lot more money than before. She sees me with a new car, a new girlfriend...and with a new look. I just looked her and didn't have a single second to spend with her. Seriously, I can't explain it..but it's the best revenge. I showed her that i could succeed and be a better man and that I didn't need her. And I have a new girl that cares about me. stop thinking of ways to have revenge. Just succeed. and let them see you succeed. Make them be silent. Her face of shock was priceless. I agree totally!! But what to do if you make a lot of money now but you never run into your ex and don't have the same friends, don't go to the same places??? I really want my ex to know how much I make now and show off my Mercedes but we have no contact!!!! Success is only the best revenge if you can let the other person KNOW that you have made it. If they don't know, then what is the point? I dream about revenge all the time but don't run in the same circles with this person. I live in California, it's a big place, not a small town.... What can I do?????
McFadden Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 I agree totally!! But what to do if you make a lot of money now but you never run into your ex and don't have the same friends, don't go to the same places??? I really want my ex to know how much I make now and show off my Mercedes but we have no contact!!!! Success is only the best revenge if you can let the other person KNOW that you have made it. If they don't know, then what is the point? I dream about revenge all the time but don't run in the same circles with this person. I live in California, it's a big place, not a small town.... What can I do????? I'm afraid youre going to have to get bigger than Donald Trump. When your name is on all the buildings and you have a reality show, you bet he'll be seeing it, yeah.
socialight Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 you won't be truely successful in all things until you no longer care about whether they find out or not. Let it go, and by doing so, you most likely insure that this person will find out one way or another. Seriously!
cutegirl Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 you won't be truely successful in all things until you no longer care about whether they find out or not. Let it go, and by doing so, you most likely insure that this person will find out one way or another. Seriously! Well, the truth is that if you don't socialize in the same circles and don't hang out at the same places they WON'T find out, unless you become super famous (as someone suggested earlier) which is extremely unlikely. So how would they find out then even IF you are secure with yourself? Being secure doesn't insure that they find out that you are successful. It's just something people like to say to make others feel good about themselves and to make people think that "being content with yourself is all that matters" or something similar. Being happy with oneself still does not GUARANTEE that the other person will find out about your success.
Author Bree Posted June 26, 2007 Author Posted June 26, 2007 This was not meant to be a how do I get back at someone thread. I just wanted to hear some light hearted stories. Sorry for any confusion.
FormerNiceGuy Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 I agree totally!! But what to do if you make a lot of money now but you never run into your ex and don't have the same friends, don't go to the same places??? I really want my ex to know how much I make now and show off my Mercedes but we have no contact!!!! Success is only the best revenge if you can let the other person KNOW that you have made it. If they don't know, then what is the point? I dream about revenge all the time but don't run in the same circles with this person. I live in California, it's a big place, not a small town.... What can I do????? Well in that case, you have it easier..... Never run into your ex? Well, then that's great. Forget about your ex. And it's ever so easy to forget about them when you don't see them. Never have contact? That's great. That means you won't have to see em. In your case, revenge would be unhealthy. Hey, just move on. Get a better mate. And find someone who actually cares about you. Hey...they say absence makes the heart grow fonder. But you know what? that's not true. the more you don't see em, the more quickly you'll forget them. Just move on.
tanbark813 Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 There has only been one time I can think of but it wasn't necessarily revenge, per se, but more like a consequence. We had broken up, gotten back together for a week, but then she broke things off while she was on a trip to L.A. with a friend. She was supposed to be back a certain evening--I'll just say Wednesday evening for argument's sake--and wanted to pick her stuff up from my apartment. She had clothes and random stuff there plus gifts she had received from her family as it was right after Christmas and her family lives (sort of) near me. (It was a LDR.) Anyway, I made sure I was at home when she was supposed to come by but I never heard from her. Later that night I called her to find out what was going on but just got her voicemail. Rather than call back I just got a simple text message "staying another day". It pissed me off and I was supposed to leave the next morning to go to Tahoe for New Year's so Thursday morning I took everything she left at my place and threw it in the dumpster before heading up to Tahoe. Petty, yes, but I was mad. Other than that I don't really bother exacting revenge on exes. I figure not getting to f**k me anymore is cruel enough.
Pyro Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 My best revenge was to let Karma deal with him. Man, she is wicked mean... Agreed. If the ex did me wrong, then I believe that she will get whats coming to her. A waste of time and energy to try and plot revenge.
underpants Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 I figure not getting to f**k me anymore is cruel enough. Ha, that is a great attitude to adopt in the face of rejection. (Note to self)
allina Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 I've never done anything cruel to an ex. The only thing I can think of is with my recent ex, everyone now knows him as the bitchy bi guy. I could have outed him but I didn't.
Trialbyfire Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 Agreed. If the ex did me wrong, then I believe that she will get whats coming to her. A waste of time and energy to try and plot revenge. You're a better person than I am. I did run through a million scenarios of revenge but never went through with them. Lest we forget Ms. Crabtree... As it currently stands, Karma did far worse than I could ever do.
dbtmarley Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 The best revenge on my ex was to just show her that you are living a happier life and to show her "without words" how much better you are. SUCCESS is the best revenge. I saw my ex the other day...and she was shocked. She sees with a new job that pays a helluva lot more money than before. She sees me with a new car, a new girlfriend...and with a new look. I just looked her and didn't have a single second to spend with her. Seriously, I can't explain it..but it's the best revenge. I showed her that i could succeed and be a better man and that I didn't need her. And I have a new girl that cares about me. stop thinking of ways to have revenge. Just succeed. and let them see you succeed. Make them be silent. Her face of shock was priceless. So true!! Hurts them right to their core..
Star Gazer Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 She had clothes and random stuff there plus gifts she had received from her family as it was right after Christmas and her family lives (sort of) near me. I took everything she left at my place and threw it in the dumpster before heading up to Tahoe. :eek:
Pyro Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 You're a better person than I am. I did run through a million scenarios of revenge but never went through with them. Lest we forget Ms. Crabtree... As it currently stands, Karma did far worse than I could ever do. I didn't always think this way. Once upon a time I was unable to keep my emotions in check.
tanbark813 Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 :eek: You mess with The Bark you get the horns. I felt bad about it after the fact but at least nothing was irreplaceable.
laRubiaBonita Posted June 26, 2007 Posted June 26, 2007 here is the link to my tale of revenge that i took out on the bastard cheater http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t87678/
Author Bree Posted June 26, 2007 Author Posted June 26, 2007 My ex did the same thing Tanbark not very nice to do when you love someone, then again I ran over some of his stuff left in the yard when I left. lol paybacks a bitch lol
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