sk8terman Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 I'm 16 years old, and I have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months. I am really shy and I don't like to make a big scene. My girlfriend and I have done everything together, the only problem is that I'm afraid to make out with her. I don't understand what's wrong with me, but I really am freaked out with the idea, and it seems I'm the only one with the problem. I'm not friends with her friends, and most of them are obnoxious, and have been dating for a longer time then I have. They want to get us to make out, and it has really been very annoying with their "help". They make a lot of jokes and I'm really starting to get pissed off from it. I just got back from a party, and they were saying things like, "what are we going to do with you." I'm really upset right now, I don't know what to do with myself. If anyone can give me any sort of advice please, it would be very helpful.
johan Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 I'm 16 years old, and I have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months. I am really shy and I don't like to make a big scene. My girlfriend and I have done everything together, the only problem is that I'm afraid to make out with her. I don't understand what's wrong with me, but I really am freaked out with the idea, and it seems I'm the only one with the problem. I'm not friends with her friends, and most of them are obnoxious, and have been dating for a longer time then I have. They want to get us to make out, and it has really been very annoying with their "help". They make a lot of jokes and I'm really starting to get pissed off from it. I just got back from a party, and they were saying things like, "what are we going to do with you." I'm really upset right now, I don't know what to do with myself. If anyone can give me any sort of advice please, it would be very helpful. Hey, man, try not to worry too much about it. You don't have to do it if you don't want to. It's not so bad though, and you'll like it when the time comes. And trust me, when the time comes she'll have a hard time holding you off. But the last thing you need to do is apply pressure to yourself just because other people think you should be doing something. Don't do that. Do what you think is right. It would be good to know what it is about making out with her that actually bothers you. What do you think will happen? As far as the friends go, are they mean-spirited about it? Or are they just teasing you?
Author sk8terman Posted June 25, 2007 Author Posted June 25, 2007 They are just teasing, but it seems mean to me sometimes even though they don't notice it. Her friends are usually very socially over confident. Sometimes they hug her, and they go, "What are you going to do about it." I don't really know what to say because they aren't serious but it's like they want something out of me. Thanks for your reply.
johan Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 They are just teasing, but it seems mean to me sometimes even though they don't notice it. Her friends are usually very socially over confident. Sometimes they hug her, and they go, "What are you going to do about it." I don't really know what to say because they aren't serious but it's like they want something out of me. Thanks for your reply. Guy friends or girl friends?
Author sk8terman Posted June 25, 2007 Author Posted June 25, 2007 Her guy friends hug her, but both girls and guys are teasing us.
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