chill chic Posted June 24, 2007 Posted June 24, 2007 This guy and I are friends, he might think I like him, but he's one of those guys where he's hot, he knows it, and talks to alot of girls, but we've been friends for awhile. Well Thursday night he called & asked what I was doing Saturday (lastnight) and he said he'd be out with a friend but wanted me or him to call afterwards to possibly meet up. So I ended up seeing him with this blonde barbie doll-looking girl as me and my friend walked by. We noticed each other but I didn't want to say anything so I kept talking to my friend, well as I walked by, he grabbed the girl, smothered her with a kiss, and I heard the girl say "what was that for?" like all ditzy sounding voice because apparently she wasn't ready for that unexpected kiss. But he obviously wanted me to see it because he stopped right when I walked by him and did that. So why did he do that? I ended up not calling him like planned, because my friend told me he wanted a reaction from me, is that true or what was his intention? Or did he like me or still like?
Trialbyfire Posted June 24, 2007 Posted June 24, 2007 chill chic, at your age, men shouldn't be playing games like this unless they're little boys. Move on.
directx Posted June 24, 2007 Posted June 24, 2007 What a d***! He wants an ego boost, not you. If he talks to you again, I would make fun of it in front of him each time. He also probably did it because he is questioning his attractivness as well. He wanted to prove he is 'all that'. What a fool
oavada Posted June 24, 2007 Posted June 24, 2007 Obviously he just played you...ie. hes telling you that youre not hot enough for him or something and that hes too good for you.
Walk Posted June 24, 2007 Posted June 24, 2007 Seriously, rag him about it. If you don't like him as more then a friend, then do what friends would do... make fun of him. If you do like him as more than a friend, then ditch the guy. He's juvenile.
Author chill chic Posted June 24, 2007 Author Posted June 24, 2007 What a d***! He wants an ego boost, not you. If he talks to you again, I would make fun of it in front of him each time. He also probably did it because he is questioning his attractivness as well. He wanted to prove he is 'all that'. What a fool his attractiveness? like to see if I'm attracted to him or not? and like the other person said, is he trying to tell me I'm not hot enough for him? But why would he keep in contact? and to what my understanding was we are just friends, I don't know if he thinks I like him like that, so even if he did think we were just friends, why would he do that right in front of me ya know?
Author chill chic Posted June 24, 2007 Author Posted June 24, 2007 Seriously, rag him about it. If you don't like him as more then a friend, then do what friends would do... make fun of him. If you do like him as more than a friend, then ditch the guy. He's juvenile. yah you're right it's juvenile and immature, he's the type of guy that constantly needs ego boosting and he hangs out with alot of barbie-type girls, but I guess I'm kinda confused at where I stood with him before this happened, because we are just friends so why would he have to do that right in front of me ya know?
oavada Posted June 24, 2007 Posted June 24, 2007 his attractiveness? like to see if I'm attracted to him or not? and like the other person said, is he trying to tell me I'm not hot enough for him? But why would he keep in contact? and to what my understanding was we are just friends, I don't know if he thinks I like him like that, so even if he did think we were just friends, why would he do that right in front of me ya know?Hes trying to get you to desire him so that he can control you. He thinks that by you seeing him with a hot blonde, that youll get jealous and want him more. That way he has a sense of power over you. I think hes essentially saying that youre not cute or hot enough for him and he can do better, *or*, he likes you in some way and he wants you to respect the fact that he has so much game..He thinks hes a pimp essentially...lol..at any rate, hes not respecting you at all by doing this i dont think.
Star Gazer Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 For crying out loud, CC - I thought you were going to try to stop analyzing every little detail! Now you're analyzing itty bitty details of FRIENDS and reading into it. This guy and I are friends, he might think I like him... You're friends. Hmm, what is it that makes you think he might think you like him? Are you flirting with him? Have you been leading him on?? That said... I don't know if he thinks I like him like that, so even if he did think we were just friends, why would he do that right in front of me ya know? I'm kinda confused at where I stood with him before this happened, because we are just friends so why would he have to do that right in front of me ya know? CC - get real. If he thinks you're just friends, why WOULDN'T he feel okay with kissing someone else in front of you? Stop and think about that for a minute. I have plenty of guy friends who I'm just friends with, and I would have no problem kissing another guy in front of them, because we're just friends. Any one of my guy friends could be your guy in question as well, and I wouldn't give it a second thought if they kissed a girl in front of me...again, because (wait for it....) we're just friends. You read WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much into every little detail, every little factoid, every little bit of behavior. Seriously. Why do you do that? If I didn't know better, I would think you are much younger than you are. Why do you so this to yourself? You're so much better than this drama you rake up on your own.
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