spunkygirl Posted June 23, 2007 Posted June 23, 2007 Ok..so I have this friend, whom I don't think is my friend anymore due to this. And I have this ex..who I don't think is my friend now due to this..Ive known Ryan, my ex, for almost 3 years now and I've known Sarah, my friend, best friend, ex friend, for almost 2 years now. And, I still have very strong feelings for my ex and he still has very strong feelings for me but due to complications we cant go out. One day Ryan messages Sarah on Myspace and things go from there. Ryan pretty much woos her on purpose and they both fall for eachother. And they decided they want to go out. I wasn't happy about this at all. And expressed that. After having a 4 hour talk with Sarah her explaining to me that I am stupid to try to keep them apart I give in and let them go for it hoping maybe someday I'll get over it. Then like the next day they decided not to because they didn't think I deserved to be hurt. What a releiver. That night I find out they called it back on thinkin, well, I am going to be hurt either way so why not give it a try. Why shouldn't they be happy because of me. That's what Sarah told me. And I reply pretty much screw you both I am done with this and don't need any of this. Am I wrong to be so upset about my best friend dating my ex???? I feel so strongly about this and am only being told by them that my heart is in the right place but I am wrong! Why!? Am I the only one who thinks that I was pretty much backstabbed!? By both of them??
Lizzie60 Posted June 24, 2007 Posted June 24, 2007 Am I wrong to be so upset about my best friend dating my ex???? No, I don't think so... especially if you still have feelings for him. But unfortunately there's not much you can do about it... Give it some time... Back off... for your own good. I feel so strongly about this and am only being told by them that my heart is in the right place but I am wrong! Why!? Am I the only one who thinks that I was pretty much backstabbed!? By both of them?? It's not really backstabbing eventhough it's an unwritten rule not to date your best friend's ex. Just don't hang out with them for now... I know this is hard but you got to do it... until you're totally over this. Good luck!
Author spunkygirl Posted June 24, 2007 Author Posted June 24, 2007 Omg Lizzie you are crazy. I JUST made this decision to just allow them to be and to back off and give myself a break from them. And bam I get the advice. Apparently I made the right choice. Thank you.
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