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sb129 Established Member

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That difficult and tedious of a task to put a condom on your pecker? Would you rather me chop it off for you? That should simplify things for the retarded. Easy to do a background check? Isn't it much easier to use protection? Dumb dumb dumb dumb dumb... dumb dumb.

 

Hahahhahahaha.

 

Oh the irony.

 

LL's posts are all over the place, she contradicts herself time and time again.

 

LOL.

sb129 Established Member

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And in one of the other threads she described the "italian stallions" (I mean wtf, does anyone seriously describe their lover like that??) wife as being a fat lactating cow.

 

So if this story IS true, she will be the fat, lactating one. :lmao: :lmao:

 

And aren't you supposed to wait till you are 12 weeks pregnant before you tell anyone?

GregsBad Established Member

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And aren't you supposed to wait till you are 12 weeks pregnant before you tell anyone?

 

Maybe it's just gas?

 

Then if she and he are as gorgeous as she says ...

 

It'll be a cute little fart!

Touche Established Member

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And in one of the other threads she described the "italian stallions" (I mean wtf, does anyone seriously describe their lover like that??) wife as being a fat lactating cow.

 

So if this story IS true, she will be the fat, lactating one. :lmao: :lmao:

 

And aren't you supposed to wait till you are 12 weeks pregnant before you tell anyone?

 

Just off-topic for a second...who says you have to wait until you're 12 weeks pregrant before telling anyone and WHY? Never heard that one before. Just had to ask. I told everyone the second I found out!:laugh:

sb129 Established Member

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In the UK doctors recommend waiting 12 weeks before you tell people.

 

I think its because the chances of a miscarriage are highest in the first trimester.

 

I have a few friends who have babies, and three who are all due within a month of eachother, and this is what they were all advised by their GPs.

 

I am such a blabbermouth, I think it will be really hard when its my turn!

GregsBad Established Member

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Serves you right. Presumptuous arrogant little PRck.

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I'm not going to listen to some bigoted biased misogynistic little prck

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Someone should chop your nuts off.

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... put a condom on your pecker?

Would you rather me chop it off for you?

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I think she has some kind of pee pee fetish.

Lizzie60 Established Member

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I have the weird idea that you will use this pregnancy (if it's true) to blackmail this couple... considering your wicked 'love' of money and your comment on the jewelry he gave you...

 

I find it sad that you have to bash his wife...what has she done to you? absolutely nothing. I also find it sad for the little one you already have... with a mother like you... sorry to be so blunt but from what I read this is the feeling I have... sadness for the baby and your little one.

 

I read a few of your posts from previous threads..and I find you are contradicting yourself a lot...

 

So, I'm not sure if this story is true... I have a hard time believing it.

 

Strange... very strange...

Lizzie60 Established Member

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In the UK doctors recommend waiting 12 weeks before you tell people.

 

I think its because the chances of a miscarriage are highest in the first trimester.

 

I have a few friends who have babies, and three who are all due within a month of eachother, and this is what they were all advised by their GPs.

 

I am such a blabbermouth, I think it will be really hard when its my turn!

 

It's hard to keep the secret sooo long... How can someone wait so long when you're sooo excited and happy! :bunny:

 

My daughter called me even before she got the confirmation from her doctor... She bought 2 'home tests' and both were positive.. so she couldn't wait to announce the good news. She called me right away.

 

Plus, I find this 'rule' stupid.. because chances you will lose the baby are pretty slim... and if the woman happened to be in that small percentage that have miscarriage...then what... you just tell everyone you had a miscarriage... there is nothing shameful about a miscarriage...

Touche Established Member

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It's hard to keep the secret sooo long... How can someone wait so long when you're sooo excited and happy! :bunny:

 

My daughter called me even before she got the confirmation from her doctor... She bought 2 'home tests' and both were positive.. so she couldn't wait to announce the good news. She called me right away.

 

Plus, I find this 'rule' stupid.. because chances you will lose the baby are pretty slim... and if the woman happened to be in that small percentage that have miscarriage...then what... you just tell everyone you had a miscarriage... there is nothing shameful about a miscarriage...

 

TOTALLY agree with that.

 

And I think it's really weird that doctor's over there tell their patients that. My doctor never told me that. And yes, I too told everyone after I took the home pregnancy test. No way, I could have waited that long!

sb129 Established Member

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Don't shoot the messenger Lizzie60!

 

I am only saying that thats what doctors recommend in this country.

If you want to tell the British Medical Association they are stupid, then be my guest, these kind of guidelines exist for a reason, people don't just make them up for the hell of it.

 

Apparently the heartbeat is best detected after 12 weeks, and thats when chances of miscarriages significantly decrease.

 

The UK is different to the US in alot of ways, and people are not as open about their private lives, especially when it comes to things like miscarriages, which is fair enough, its a very personal and often traumatic thing to experience.

 

I have a friend who had two miscarriages last summer, so she waited until she had had her first scan before she told anyone about her current pregnancy.

I have another friend who is also pregnant who has spent a small fortune on IVF, and getting pregnant was so difficult for her, she didn't tell anyone until twelve weeks either.

lindya Established Member

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If you want to tell the British Medical Association they are stupid, then be my guest,

 

No doubt like most professional organisations, they're used to receiving accusations of stupidity from their members - and reacting with dignified, clinical huffiness.

 

The UK is different to the US in alot of ways, and people are not as open about their private lives, especially when it comes to things like miscarriages, which is fair enough, its a very personal and often traumatic thing to experience.

 

Very true. Whenever anyone announces a pregnancy, I assume they're past their third month, and I didn't realise that wasn't universal. Certainly a couple of friends I have in other parts of Europe didn't announce their pregnancy until after the third month had passed.

Lizzie60 Established Member

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Don't shoot the messenger Lizzie60!

 

I am only saying that thats what doctors recommend in this country.

If you want to tell the British Medical Association they are stupid, then be my guest, these kind of guidelines exist for a reason, people don't just make them up for the hell of it.

 

Apparently the heartbeat is best detected after 12 weeks, and thats when chances of miscarriages significantly decrease.

 

The UK is different to the US in alot of ways, and people are not as open about their private lives, especially when it comes to things like miscarriages, which is fair enough, its a very personal and often traumatic thing to experience.

 

I have a friend who had two miscarriages last summer, so she waited until she had had her first scan before she told anyone about her current pregnancy.

I have another friend who is also pregnant who has spent a small fortune on IVF, and getting pregnant was so difficult for her, she didn't tell anyone until twelve weeks either.

 

If you want to tell the British Medical Association they are stupid, then be my guest

 

OK...get me their address... :laugh:

 

its a very personal and often traumatic thing to experience.

 

I totally agree...it is most of time traumatic.. but the pregnant woman already knows... right... so it can't be more traumatic for others ....but I agree that some people are not as open about their personal life...

 

Oh well...

 

I still think it's a dumb 'rule'... LOL

sb129 Established Member

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Lol.

 

Its not a "rule"..... its a recommendation...

 

There is a difference!

Touche Established Member

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Lol.

 

Its not a "rule"..... its a recommendation...

 

There is a difference!

 

Can you tell your husband? If so, then what's the difference if you tell other people who love you and care about you?

sb129 Established Member

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Guys, its not like there is a little policeman who comes around to book you if you tell anyone!

 

Of course you can tell your husband!

 

 

They just give you the advice..... what you do with it is up to you...

Lizzie60 Established Member

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Lol.

 

Its not a "rule"..... its a recommendation...

 

There is a difference!

 

dumb 'recommendation' ...LOL

Touche Established Member

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Guys, its not like there is a little policeman who comes around to book you if you tell anyone!

 

Of course you can tell your husband!

 

 

They just give you the advice..... what you do with it is up to you...

 

Ok, I get it, Sb. I just had never heard that doctors recommend that. Interesting.

sb129 Established Member

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I never really thought about it before....

 

I have never heard any other conflicting advice, and have only really began discussing babies and pregnancies at all in the last few years as alot of my friends have begun having babies recently.

 

Lots of medical advice is given to pregnant women that wasn't given out when my mum was pregnant with me.

 

Now pregnant women are given a whole list of things they aren't supposed to eat, like raw eggs (which rules out creme brulee!!!), rare steak, seafood, unpasteurised cheeses such as camembert, they aren't supposed to have any alcohol at all,

some women are told to avoid nuts in case their baby is born with a nut allergy, but some women are told nuts are fine....

 

Some women are told they cant even have their hair coloured.

 

I guess alot of it is to do with todays litigious society and scaremongering etc.

 

My grandmother swore by guinness to boost her iron levels when she was pregnant and my dad is a little nutty, but fine.

 

I went out for lunch with my three pregnant friends yesterday, and you can guess what the conversation revolved around!!!!!

Curmudgeon Established Member

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My wife is a former midwife who delivered hundreds of babies in at-home births and never lost one. I'll have to show her this. I think she'll get a good laugh from it.

 

Sounds like your doctors run on paranoia.

sb129 Established Member

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They aren't my doctors!

 

I am not even pregnant!

 

I am merely recounting what three pregnant friends told me yesterday.

 

 

I doubt its as simple as paranoia, as medical guidelines have to have a little bit more substance than that!

 

I do think there is alot of scaremongering now, and with they way health professionals are sued alot more these days, I guess they try and cover absolutely all their bases.

 

O&G doctors have the highest indemnity fees, and thats probably why- its such a sensitive subject, and I guess if someone loses their much wanted baby, they want to be able to point the finger at someone.

Lizzie60 Established Member

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My daughter is pregnant... and my-my this is sooo not the era when I was pregnant... LOL

 

She used to take a glass of wine while dining...she won't anymore...not even one beer...

 

She won't take one single aspirin... she won't go near smokers, she won't go near if we are painting with latex...

 

I told her this was a little over the top...but her argument is this:

 

I want to put all the chances on my baby's side...if something is wrong with him-her...then it won't be because I wasn't careful...

 

Good point! plus it's none of my business.... LOL :bunny:

Curmudgeon Established Member

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She won't take one single aspirin... she won't go near smokers, she won't go near if we are painting with latex...

 

I told her this was a little over the top...but her argument is this:

 

I want to put all the chances on my baby's side...if something is wrong with him-her...then it won't be because I wasn't careful...

 

Good point! plus it's none of my business.... LOL :bunny:

 

And yet, for one of the more "advanced" countries in the world, we have a child mortality rate higher than most. Could be your daughter's prudence is well considered.

Storyrider Established Member

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I think the reason Americans find the 12-week "recommendation" amusing is the way you introduced it at first, sb, as "aren't you supposed to wait until week 12."

 

Americans are perfectly happy to take advice from their doctors involving medical issues, but when it comes to something that would more accurately fall under the category of etiquette, they're simply not going to buy it, whether it makes common sense or not.

 

As a general rule, Americans hate being told what to do, especially by a government sponsored committee, and I don't think a medical association in America would even take this on as an issue. They might give the facts about viability, but it would be laughable if they then extrapolated advice about when to tell people.

 

It is clearly a cultural difference, and an interesting one.

sb129 Established Member

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Oh, I see where you are coming from!

I should have said aren't you "advised" to wait till after 12 weeks.

 

I am not even British, but I have lived here long enough to make a few observations.

 

And as far as that all goes, personally I would find it very very hard to keep my trap shut for 2 weeks let alone twelve!

Storyrider Established Member

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Oh, I see where you are coming from!

I should have said aren't you "advised" to wait till after 12 weeks.

 

I am not even British, but I have lived here long enough to make a few observations.

 

And as far as that all goes, personally I would find it very very hard to keep my trap shut for 2 weeks let alone twelve!

Ha ha. It is still funny. Look at the Surgeon General's warning on a pack of cigarettes. There are probably thousands of Americans who light up just to spite the SG.

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