wookinpanub Posted June 23, 2007 Posted June 23, 2007 i don't freaking know what I want. It took me SO long to get over this girl I was dating for quite a while. Well I did and I was so proud of myself. I was so happy to move on, to find someone else and just or just be free again. But now I am SO apathetic toward the whole situation, heh. I can't take the whole idea seriously. For real though, this whole idea of love and crap is a joke.
directx Posted June 23, 2007 Posted June 23, 2007 take a breath! The older you get, the more there are A LOT of single, older, horny women that are HOT! Don't hunt for love. If it comes it comes. Its something that should not be forced
Author wookinpanub Posted June 23, 2007 Author Posted June 23, 2007 i dunno, i just mean the whole idea of trying to meet someone seems kind of pointless. I see so many couples fight. I see so many people with problems on here. it makes me wonder, why try? why even take the idea of dating seriously?
directx Posted June 23, 2007 Posted June 23, 2007 You are not wrong. but i would suggest just change your perspective. Just date for the fun of it. have FUN. Its so easy to put pressure on yourself wondering if it will become something serious. Man, there is a WHOLE WORLD of women out there. Date an asian chick with a cute accent. Or a brazillian woman with a sweet butt. Or puerto rican with those curves... Well enowed blonde, etc. you get the idea. marry a doctor and be a stay home dad. So many possibilties....
Author wookinpanub Posted June 23, 2007 Author Posted June 23, 2007 marry a doctor and be a stay home dad. So many possibilties.... my brother did that, except she isnt a doctor, some corporate thing. but i was thinking about it since i posted last night. i won't lie, in my last long relationship i had my fair share of issues about trust and all that nice crap. but i was thinking why not like try to take this attitude and use it to like not care about that stuff. its weird but i can't see myself caring. even if i were in a serious relationship and she were to cheat or something, i don't see myself getting upset over it at all. i think your right, i should just date for the fun of it. and i have often thought that. but lately i've just been feeling too lazy to even do that, you know? i just feel like why even make the effort to ask a girl on a date? the whole point of dating, from the way i have always seen it is to either A) find someone you want to be in a relationship with or B) try to hook up but all the girls i know dont do the hook up thing unless its with someone they are in a relationship with. so its kind of a round robin.
Jig Posted June 23, 2007 Posted June 23, 2007 Just be sure that the girl you date knows it's just for fun. Because us girls get our feelings hurt easy sometimes
Author wookinpanub Posted June 24, 2007 Author Posted June 24, 2007 yeah but with my luck, i will make it clear that it is just for fun with the wrong girl and before long i wont want it to be just for fun, but something serious. this is why its so much easier to just be celibate for a while. just avoid the subject completely. ive got bigger things to be concerned with, although i don't know what exactly, lol. im a mess.
katiebour Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 It's easy to feel apathetic or hopeless about relationships after a breakup. I wouldn't worry about it. If/when you're ready to get back in the ring, you'll want to. Don't force something you don't feel. By the way, if you're looking for a FWB, I suggest craigslist.org Back when I was single and not looking for another heartbreaking relationship I had some really fun times answering the "casual encounters" section. After that breakup and the subsequent no strings attached dating, I officially score about 20% lower on a standard purity test :laugh:
Author wookinpanub Posted June 26, 2007 Author Posted June 26, 2007 lol, ill have to take a peek at that section... i must say, i dont often stray from the for sale section on there.
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