Ckart18 Posted June 22, 2007 Posted June 22, 2007 I've been dating this girl since February of this year. We really rushed into many things. For instance I was in Florida on a business trip about two weeks after we met; I flew her down and we spent about four days in Key West. Nothing wrong there; it's just we never even had a sleep over before that. Everything went better than can be expected and the feeling was mutual. We had spent almost every night together since. I have not been in a previous relationship for several years prior to this one, dated sporadically; but never felt close or secure with another. I've had several things I've wanted to do in that time; so after having someone to do them with, I did. We went on about five mini-vacations together; having a blast on each one. I'm 29, and she is 27. She has never done many of the things we were doing together, NYC, Miami, Key West, Orland, I let her fly a small Cessna for about a half hour during one of my lessons, etc....., I even attended her sister's wedding with her. Everything was going great, better than great. She would always tell me how amazing I was and how happy I made her. We had a small argument in Orlando, and then made up, I had to fly out to Chicago for a few days, and she flew home. Everything seemed fine. The weekend came around which we had planned to go into Philadelphia on Saturday to see a program at the museum, something we had planned the week prior. Her roommates boyfriends birthday was that Friday and she wanted us to hang out at a bar; I let her know I was tired and did not want to be there until close it would probably ruin the weekend. We stayed until close; I slept over her house that night. She was very upset I slept so late, and dropped me back off at my place. I told her maybe we needed a little break from things. Sh sped away. No phone calls, I called her once and text here twice. She finally calls back on Sunday. We argue and I tell her to lose my number out of anger. She texts on Wednesday to come pock up my stuff. I do not call her back until Friday morning. We pick a time for me to pick up my things. I arrive and she is extremely cold to me and actually shaking. We argue and she throws me out of her house. I have drunk dialed one, but really miss her please help! I wrote her a letter but haven't sent it and she has not called all week. Any ideas?
FEEDTHEID Posted June 22, 2007 Posted June 22, 2007 Hate to say it bro, sounds like we are in a similar place(check my thread), we both know it's over but don't want to face it and walk. As far as support the best I can offer is I feel for you and I hope it works out for you or you're able to move on. Good Luck
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