meme3 Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 I'm still talking to my ex but the thing is we are still acting as if we are bf/gf. We still talk to eachother for hours and we kiss, it seems like we are. When I asked him if we could get back with eachother, he said it wouldn't be fair to me if we did. I'm not sure what that means. But i'm trying to figure out if i should be his friend and keep him or just leave him alone. I want to get back with him and it would seem like he wants to also by the way he acts. But it is only like this when he is with me. We were together for two weeks and there was no sex, but now he wants to initial it. He wants me to have sex with him. It won't happen we're ex's. In a way I don't know how to go about this whole situation, truthfully. We broke up and that should have been that. He told me that it shouldn't be reason we can't hang out. I usually loose contact with my ex's because I see no point in having them around. He is special to me but why should I keep him around because I don't think I'm going to be in his future but whose to say? I do really like him but what to do about him. Remain his friend or just forget him all together? I'm confused...
Lizzie60 Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 I'm still talking to my ex but the thing is we are still acting as if we are bf/gf. We still talk to eachother for hours and we kiss, it seems like we are. When I asked him if we could get back with eachother, he said it wouldn't be fair to me if we did. I'm not sure what that means. But i'm trying to figure out if i should be his friend and keep him or just leave him alone. I want to get back with him and it would seem like he wants to also by the way he acts. But it is only like this when he is with me. We were together for two weeks and there was no sex, but now he wants to initial it. He wants me to have sex with him. It won't happen we're ex's. In a way I don't know how to go about this whole situation, truthfully. We broke up and that should have been that. He told me that it shouldn't be reason we can't hang out. I usually loose contact with my ex's because I see no point in having them around. He is special to me but why should I keep him around because I don't think I'm going to be in his future but whose to say? I do really like him but what to do about him. Remain his friend or just forget him all together? I'm confused... This is really up to you... He obviously wants to remain 'friends with benefits' with you... Do you want that? If you're still 'in love' with him..then it might not be for you... because I don't think he's 'in love' with you anymore... but he likes you a lot and you seem to have pretty strong feelings for him still. If you decide to go with the FWB thing... then you have to be prepared that he might see other women as well... That is not an exclusive relationship... You need to think hard about this.
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