Shags Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 First off hi all ima 20 year old male . 2nd... Im sorry if I come out vulger ill try and pretty it up. Anyways Im a 20 year old male, Ive been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years now and its been great. Ive only been with 3 women in my life and I really enjoyed having fun with my friends seeing how many girls we could pull and just all around guy things younger guys like to do. Well I ended up with my current girlfriend to be honest it began as just a sex thing, and I didnt know at the time but she was a virgin, so well I kinda wish she wasnt cause now I was the first guy she kissed first guy she did ANYTHING with and she will never forget this im sure. Well anyways alot of the relationship has been great we had our ups and downs but now since we have been dating so long her mom is tlaking about kids and marraige and honestly NO nowhere ready ill kill myself if it comes to that lol. the past year, dont get me wrong, Shes a great girlfriend gets me drink brings me food pretty much does anything I ask, if I want sex or oral or ANYTHING I mean I just say it and she does and thats great and all but now its like, Its hard for me to go ANYWHERE without her wanting to tag along, I tell her no somtimes and she said im sorry you need your guy time, and even tho she gives me my guy time she seems really sad about it. some other things thats really making me well kinda disapointed, shes gaining weight and im really getting where I find it unattractive, I mean I have Dime peices flirting with me alot of times, and this past weekend While I was doing my drinking thing with some friends some of there girlfriends friends came and REALLY made some moves on me giving me lapdances and stuff while we were all drunk and I COULDA and was very close to doing some bad things but I stoped myself. im not unhappy with my relationship with my girlfriend I love her to death, me and her family get along great, I work on cars with her dad and help her mom do things I mean its like were married... but im only 20 I dont wanna be in the situation I wanna be out with my friends partying and drinking and just flirting with girls and experiment alot more, but since my current girlfriend is such a ball and chain theres no way I can say "hey lets take a break" without breaking her heart. and were both finished with school and I dont wanna be out partying and her always at home so its hard for her to find another guy to go with but easy for me, cause she doesnt have any girlfriends she just hangs with me and only me. I somtimes just wish my girlfriend would cheat on me >.< I know I hate to say it but I dono what else to say I want out of this relationship somtimes and I dono what to say or do... but then again theres somtimes when I really wanna be in it and love her alot but right now the urge is dying slowly and slowly. What do I do im just so confused. I love her but dont wanna hurt her wanna be with her and still at other times wanna be single and live my life like a 20 year old should and not be tied down. Please im begging for some honest info... thank you.
Author Shags Posted June 21, 2007 Author Posted June 21, 2007 After rereading what I wrote, I would just like to add, I REALLLYYY Love my girlfriend alot and would do ANYTHING for her but I have temptations... she ask for sex somtimes and im pretty much like "maybe later" Im not gay or anything and the sex is great but somtimes I just dono not in the mood. I dono just put it like this Im VERY sorry to sound dirty when I say this. My girlfriend looks good has some nice assests (38C's Yummy) but when we goto do things she has to work a little to get me horny (oral or hand job ).... Ok at the house partys when im with my friends and Im getting random sluts with smaller tittys put in my face I get a small erection alot easyer lol... (guys know what I mean!!! a little chubby starting to come awake but not full force lol) My friends say I have SOPA Syndrom. (same ole peice of ass) I wanna stay with my current girlfriend but I wanna have girls on the side to fullfill some of my other needs but im not a cheater or dont wanna hurt anybodys feelings so I dono what to do lol... Sorry for double post.
kymberann Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 All I can say is you are not ready for a real relationship. Eitehr break up with her and then play, or work on the one you already have.
jcster Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 Too much relationship too soon. You're going to break her heart one way or another, it would be better to do it with kindness rather than waiting until you'll do anything to get away. Neither one of you have had enough life experience to know if this relationship is "the one." She needs to learn how to live her own life as do you.
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