smookie Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 Well a Tiny bit of the past first.. broke up about 3 months ago . did nc for about 1 month then talked for about 3 weeks ... ended up he stayed at my place for the weekend ( he said that it was done between him and her ) so long story short , he says he will call does not then finally talk to him on Tuesday and he shows up with HER TO MY HOUSE!!! I FREEKED!! No I do not want him back but why the heck would he do that. we were together for 4.5 years... I so do not get it and I am pist because he says that she is a lier and calls her a "crackhead" (she takes off at least once a week and is gone for 3 or 4 days) why would he do this to me? I meaen stay with her do not put her in my face... As much as it sounds like we are kids we are not we are both in our 30s..
smookie Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 I guess i want to know how people can hurt the people that they care about? even intensionlly.. that was my question
tikigods Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 he does it cause you LET him do it. I say never talk with this guy again, as long as you invite him over, or anything you are giving him power, which he is using against you. Move on with your life
Pixie-Minx Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 i honestly think, people hurt other people when they are hurting themselves. Otherwise you do the best you can to make sure someone is ok.
9Lives Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 Well a Tiny bit of the past first.. broke up about 3 months ago . did nc for about 1 month then talked for about 3 weeks ... ended up he stayed at my place for the weekend ( he said that it was done between him and her ) so long story short , he says he will call does not then finally talk to him on Tuesday and he shows up with HER TO MY HOUSE!!! I FREEKED!! No I do not want him back but why the heck would he do that. we were together for 4.5 years... I so do not get it and I am pist because he says that she is a lier and calls her a "crackhead" (she takes off at least once a week and is gone for 3 or 4 days) why would he do this to me? I meaen stay with her do not put her in my face... As much as it sounds like we are kids we are not we are both in our 30s.. I almost hate him for you. What a HUGE Loser!!!!
sao2 Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 I agree that this is unusually cruel. He is obviously upset about something and not handling it very well.
nittygritty Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 Maybe he is smoking crack with her? Does he call her a crackhead because she disappears for 3 or 4 days at a time or is it because she actually smokes crack? Either way, be thankful that he is no longer your problem. My guess is he's insecure, immature (age doesn't matter)and feels the need to hurt you by showing you that he is desirable to his "crackhead" girl. Freaking out may have been the reaction that he wanted to see. It shows him that you still care. I recommend not reacting and not contacting him again. Now that you know what he is capable of, use it to help you get over him. Just keep reminding yourself how mean he can be. Take Care
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