confusedandempty Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 Hey everyone, just need to vent - a) Today there are 8 months since my ex and I broke up. I'm completely over her now, in the since that I wouldn't take her back by any means. I still get flashbacks once in a while, as last summer was the greatest in my life and I have memories of us from last summer. But like I said, I don't get this awkward pain in the stomach when she pops into my mind anymore. b) I've got 5 best friends. Three of them are in a relationship and expecting a baby around Christmas. I don't see them a lot anymore, but I completely understand their situation. One of my friend is 2 months into a new relationship and I don't see him at all these days. He's so busy with the new gf, and he has no time for me. I understand him in a way, I would probably do the same. But it still bothers my sometimes, because I know it won't be a long term. But I'm not in the position to control other peoples love life. The fifth friend is an airline pilot and he spends a lot of time in Europe and 30.000 feet above see - he is single though . c) One of my friends gf (a pregnant one) has this best friend who is also single. All 5 friends of mine seem to think that we would be a great match. She is a nice girl I guess, but she is definitely not my type. It is soooo annoying when all of your friends at the same time try to set you up with a girl that you don't want anything to do with. Especially now when I know that she really likes me...it puts me in an awkward position over and over again. d) I dated this girl in the beginning of the year. She told me that it wasn't gonna work, but we had a good connection and we are great friends today. However she keeps sending me some mixed signals now and I don't want to confront her because I don't wanna ruin our friendship. A friend of hers told me [while drunk] that she didn't talk about anything else but me...weird...but that was just at the same time as when she told me it wouldn't work out. I think one of her obese, ugly friend was messing up her head. My and X are great friends today ... but her friend barely looks at me while were all together. e) Over all I don't want a relationship right now. But considering all my friends being in a relationship right now - I don't see any other options. I spend all nights reading, watching sitcoms and reading. I don't see my friends anymore....I just don't know what I wanna do right now...everything is soooo confusing... What a great vent!!
Steveto Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 Make more friends! That's what I do...I know it's hard to get motivated, but you get used to it and well, it's cool knowing and getting to know new people. I am trying to find the right person as well. I have never been ready for a relationship as I am now. Get out there!
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