PinkAngelStar Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 Hi everyone, I've just joined, and I need some advice. I can't tell if I'm just being paranoid by thinking my boyfriend is going off me. We've been together two months, and already he is very special, we just clicked and since then we were inseperable. It was like our personalities just fitted together like the missing piece of a jigsaw. He's even told me he believes I'm his solemate, and I feel the same. He told me I'm the girl he wants to marry. I don't know if anyone understands this after such a short while. I know it probably sounds crazy. Recently it's like somethings changed with him, he just seems a little distanced. He doesn't tell me the things he used to, or do the things he used to. He's 25 and I'm 20. Both still young. I'm just hoping for some advice, maybe I'm just being paranoid about everything? Thanks
tikigods Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 maybe he is taking a step back and realizing that you guys have only been together for 2 months and already he is telling you things that people say in long term committed relationships and wants to back down a bit. Why don't you mention something to him?
Author PinkAngelStar Posted June 25, 2007 Author Posted June 25, 2007 Well this weekend hasn't been great, we hardly spent time together, I've just got a new job, which is taking up a lot of time at the weekends which we spent together before. It's not going to permanent, just until my hours have settled down a bit as I've had intensive training. He said he'd come over last night, by half ten still nothing, I gave him a call and he said it was too late, at which point I wasn't very happy. He ended up coming over and I tried to talk about how I felt and he said that nothing is wrong. Why do I feel there is?
shyman Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 Did you ask him why he was so late in coming over? Maybe he had a genuine reason.
Steveto Posted June 25, 2007 Posted June 25, 2007 He seems to be taking the relationship at a different pace. At least from what I can tell. When push comes to shove, you will know if he is the right guy for you. People just act differently in relationships..some grow deeper in caring and loving and some just act the same way in a relationship as out..am I making any sense to you? You're in a relationship..you should be happy.
Author PinkAngelStar Posted July 1, 2007 Author Posted July 1, 2007 You're in a relationship..you should be happy. I have to disagree with this statement. Just because someones in a relationship doesn't mean that they should be happy. Things have got a lot better now though. Thanks for your replies!
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