cuddles4u Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 would you say it is harder to forget your first love? how long does it take? is is more difficult for women versus men to forget there first love?
Living_For_Me Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 Hi cuddles If you don't mind me asking why do you want to forget your first love?
Living_For_Me Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 To be honest i don't think you ever truly forget your first love. I think they just become a fond memory that you go back to every once in a while.
funkybassplayer Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 I was with my first love for 9 years, 15 years ago now. I dont think you never really stop loving someone that you were in true love with, it just dies down over the years, but i think things can always re-surface even years later if they were alllowed to. We all have past lifes and loves, and they will always re-emerge in our lifes as memories, like a perfume smell etc, and they will always be in our memories till the day we die, and trying to forget is impossible. If we tried to forget a relationship good or bad, we never learn from them, and you can be very much in love, even if the person you were with was not the best partner. Love has no bounderys. My last ex was a nightmare but i loved her loads, and learnt loads about high maintenace women!!!
Pixie-Minx Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 my honest opinion, true love never dies. You can get over the heartbreak of a first love but you will never stop loving them in someway. My first love after a terrible breakup resurfaced years later only to startup again, and recently i thought i was so veyr much over it and yet seeing him still makes my stomach flip, he is engaged and happy but he even says to me now, there is chemistry between us that will never die. But it doesnt mean it was right. True love as funky said....u love them despite all thier flaws.and sometimes years later when you both learn and grow up it can be rekindled. if it was not true love........you will get over it and meet another. x
funkybassplayer Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 May i add, even if it was true love you will move on...............but never forget!
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