Tomcat33 Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 You know, you make a joke out of it, but I bet its not far from the truth that you'd really like her to allow you to have gf's. Now I understand why you show no remorse. And in your case the saying is definitely true....once a cheater, always a cheater. Given the opportunity, you WILL do it again. And then you'll be on here saying, "it just happened and there was nothing I could do about it". That's because he never got caught. The crocodile tears only come out when they are caught, it is the shame for being caught more than the actual pain they inflicted. If cheaters REALLY cared about their partners they wouldn't cheat, it is THAT cut and dry.
bish Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 That's because he never got caught. The crocodile tears only come out when they are caught, it is the shame for being caught more than the actual pain they inflicted. If cheaters REALLY cared about their partners they wouldn't cheat, it is THAT cut and dry. I agree 100%. I can't imagine cheating on my wife if I cared about her. As far as I'm concerned, it takes someone with icewater running through their veins to cheat.
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 27, 2007 Author Posted June 27, 2007 Cheaters are not victims. Funny how cheaters can do something so despicable, yet can't take the honest truth of things. Ya, they can't take a few words, but what they are doing to their partners is suppose to be perfectly understandable. Get over yourself bish. Lol!
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 27, 2007 Author Posted June 27, 2007 No, but you are expected, as is expected of any decent person who wants us to think he/she cares about his wife/husband, to show remorse. You show none. You can tell us all you want about how you care for your wife, your actions say otherwise. Why the hell would I care what you think? I know what happened and you don't. Whatever you imagine is your problem entirely and has nothing to do with me whatsoever. I'm fine, are you?
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 27, 2007 Author Posted June 27, 2007 You know, you make a joke out of it, but I bet its not far from the truth that you'd really like her to allow you to have gf's. Now I understand why you show no remorse. And in your case the saying is definitely true....once a cheater, always a cheater. Given the opportunity, you WILL do it again. And then you'll be on here saying, "it just happened and there was nothing I could do about it". LOL! After reading your up-tight bs posting I am smiling and just laughing my ass off! I'm really not too sure who the hell you think you are or why you would think that I would give a damn at all about what you think about anything. I'll let you know immediately when it happens again, ok? LMAO...
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 27, 2007 Author Posted June 27, 2007 That's because he never got caught. The crocodile tears only come out when they are caught, it is the shame for being caught more than the actual pain they inflicted. If cheaters REALLY cared about their partners they wouldn't cheat, it is THAT cut and dry. LOL! If I ever got caught I would have placed the blame squarely where it belonged, ON BOTH OF US. If she didn't like it she could go away. Nothing left to say.
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 27, 2007 Author Posted June 27, 2007 I agree 100%. I can't imagine cheating on my wife if I cared about her. As far as I'm concerned, it takes someone with icewater running through their veins to cheat. Thank you. I am that cool I guess. I'm awesome too. Do you worship your wife and kiss her ass on command? As far as I'm concerned I don't care what you think about anything, I really don't. You are nothing to me and what you have to say is less than nothing. Why do you even bother writing your self righteous snotty crap on here? I don't listen to any of it because frankly I can easily see you for what you are. Please go away, ok? Thank you.
bish Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 Thank you. I am that cool I guess. I'm awesome too. See, we knew this about you. You don't think your shi!t stinks and have no remorse over what you have done to your wife even though she doesn't know You are an entitlement boy. Do you worship your wife and kiss her ass on command? Nope. Besides, what does that have to do with honoring, loving, or cherishing your wife? Its quite obvious that you don't exhibit any of those behaviors for her. As far as I'm concerned I don't care what you think about anything, I really don't. Ya ya, blah blah blah....thats why you felt compelled to respond. You are nothing to me and what you have to say is less than nothing. Truth hurts, I know. People don't like to hear the truth, then lash out at it. Why do you even bother writing your self righteous snotty crap on here? If knowing right from wrong, and knowing a jerk when I see one that doesn't give a crap about his wife to keep it in his pants is self-righteous, then great!! I don't listen to any of it because frankly I can easily see you for what you are. Please go away, ok? Thank you. How about you go away? You come here with your cheating story expecting sympathy for what you have done....sorry pal. You have no remorse for what you have done. You feel entitled to cheat on your wife, and you have no sympathy for her. Maybe if you came here with an attitude that you felt bad and will never let it happen again, things might be different from me and the other posters. But you don't. You come in here with this arrogant attitude and BS about not being able to control what you do with your lil sprout. Sorry. You are not a man. If you were, you'd own your bad behavior. Instead, you blame your wife for it and say you couldn't help yourself. Well if thats the case then you will always be a cheater because in your own words....you couldn't help it. There is some magical force that thrust you into another woman's open legs. Your wife doesn't deserve this. Fine man you are to have stuck it in another woman behind the back of the woman that bore your children.
lovely01 Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 you should at least try to make your relationship better with your wife. she deserves you to at least try or let it go. sorry having a very bad day.
bish Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 you should at least try to make your relationship better with your wife. she deserves you to at least try or let it go. sorry having a very bad day. what she deserves is someone other than him that will treat her with respect and honor his wedding vows.
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 27, 2007 Author Posted June 27, 2007 you should at least try to make your relationship better with your wife. she deserves you to at least try or let it go. sorry having a very bad day. Who the hell ever said that I wasn't trying? Of course I am or I wouldn't be in the marriage! I'm really not sure what most of you are talking about.
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 27, 2007 Author Posted June 27, 2007 what she deserves is someone other than him that will treat her with respect and honor his wedding vows. lmao! I'm amazed that you actually think you have any clue whatsoever about anything. Get a life man.
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 27, 2007 Author Posted June 27, 2007 See, we knew this about you. You don't think your shi!t stinks and have no remorse over what you have done to your wife even though she doesn't know You are an entitlement boy. Nope. Besides, what does that have to do with honoring, loving, or cherishing your wife? Its quite obvious that you don't exhibit any of those behaviors for her. Ya ya, blah blah blah....thats why you felt compelled to respond. Truth hurts, I know. People don't like to hear the truth, then lash out at it. If knowing right from wrong, and knowing a jerk when I see one that doesn't give a crap about his wife to keep it in his pants is self-righteous, then great!! How about you go away? You come here with your cheating story expecting sympathy for what you have done....sorry pal. You have no remorse for what you have done. You feel entitled to cheat on your wife, and you have no sympathy for her. Maybe if you came here with an attitude that you felt bad and will never let it happen again, things might be different from me and the other posters. But you don't. You come in here with this arrogant attitude and BS about not being able to control what you do with your lil sprout. Sorry. You are not a man. If you were, you'd own your bad behavior. Instead, you blame your wife for it and say you couldn't help yourself. Well if thats the case then you will always be a cheater because in your own words....you couldn't help it. There is some magical force that thrust you into another woman's open legs. Your wife doesn't deserve this. Fine man you are to have stuck it in another woman behind the back of the woman that bore your children. This utter CRAP really doesn't even deserve a response. In fact, I'm not even going to read more than the first sentence. You are a sick judgemental dumbass. You're divorced aren't you? Just a guess, lol.
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 27, 2007 Author Posted June 27, 2007 Saw POC3 again today with my son and daughter. Man that movie is long! That's the last time for me.
Babybird Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 How about you go away? You come here with your cheating story expecting sympathy for what you have done....sorry pal. You have no remorse for what you have done. You feel entitled to cheat on your wife, and you have no sympathy for her. Seems to me that this isn't the forum he should be in to get sympathy for his W. He came to get support for himself. If that makes him selfish than so be it. "The Other Man / Woman The other side of the story: Support and discussion for those who find themselves involved with a committed partner." This forum is full of BS' that come to take out their anger on people involved in A's. Why are you here? Maybe if your W cheated on you you should check out the forums in Breaking up, reconciliation, and coping. That seems a bit more appropriate.
Babybird Posted June 27, 2007 Posted June 27, 2007 How about you go away? You come here with your cheating story expecting sympathy for what you have done....sorry pal. You have no remorse for what you have done. You feel entitled to cheat on your wife, and you have no sympathy for her. Maybe if you came here with an attitude that you felt bad and will never let it happen again, things might be different from me and the other posters. Wait a minute! This forum is for people that find themselves involved with committed people. Not for BS'. Not to come take out their anger on these people that have nothing to do with their spouses affair. What exactly are you doing here??? If your W cheated on you than maybe you should check out the Breaking up, Reconciliation, and Coping Forums. This man has no reason, or need, to express remorse for what he has done here. Thats why its for people in Affairs!!!
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 28, 2007 Author Posted June 28, 2007 Seems to me that this isn't the forum he should be in to get sympathy for his W. He came to get support for himself. If that makes him selfish than so be it. "The Other Man / Woman The other side of the story: Support and discussion for those who find themselves involved with a committed partner." This forum is full of BS' that come to take out their anger on people involved in A's. Why are you here? Maybe if your W cheated on you you should check out the forums in Breaking up, reconciliation, and coping. That seems a bit more appropriate. That's what I'm talking about! I'm not even going to read or reply to Mr. "BISH" anymore. He seems to be really a sick puppy to me who offers little else except hurt feelings, lack of understanding, and completely idiotic sentiments. Was my OW your wife Bish? If so, I guess I can see why you're pissed (sort of). But really you should grow some testicular fortitude (BALLS!) and get over yourself already! I wouldn't blame any woman to get away from a pompous wind-bag like you. That's exactly what happens Bishy! If you can't treat your woman right she will look elsewhwere and you have nobody to blame but yourself.
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 28, 2007 Author Posted June 28, 2007 Wait a minute! This forum is for people that find themselves involved with committed people. Not for BS'. Not to come take out their anger on these people that have nothing to do with their spouses affair. What exactly are you doing here??? If your W cheated on you than maybe you should check out the Breaking up, Reconciliation, and Coping Forums. This man has no reason, or need, to express remorse for what he has done here. Thats why its for people in Affairs!!! Thanks babybird but bish is hoplessly confused. I don't think he can help himself. BISH: I have asked you nicely and I'll ask you one more time ---- DO NOT EVEN COME HERE AND READ STUFF ON MY THREAD. There's no point in you doing so. You offer nothing at all. I don't care what you think about any of it and won't even read anything you post. Ok? Have a nice life.
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 Fave, on some level I can understand why you wouldn't want to tell. If you told her, she may start thinking 'divorce' and 'revenge'. I am from NC too, and you are probably as aware as I am of alienation of affection and criminal conversation laws and how badly they can complicate a divorce. I'm not saying that its right, but I can understand from that POV why you wouldn't want to bring it up. Are you ever worried that she would find out on her own? I expect if she did, and didn't hear it from you - then there really would be some consequences, I'm sure.
lovely01 Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 i am not trying to be mean. do you try to ask her if you all can have date night? do you do things for her to make her feel special or needed? does she do anything to make you feel special or needed like the other women did? i am just trying to talk sorry it made you mad. how was the movie ? and have you spoken or heard anything about the other women? lots of questions again!!
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 28, 2007 Author Posted June 28, 2007 Fave, on some level I can understand why you wouldn't want to tell. If you told her, she may start thinking 'divorce' and 'revenge'. I am from NC too, and you are probably as aware as I am of alienation of affection and criminal conversation laws and how badly they can complicate a divorce. I'm not saying that its right, but I can understand from that POV why you wouldn't want to bring it up. Are you ever worried that she would find out on her own? I expect if she did, and didn't hear it from you - then there really would be some consequences, I'm sure. I seriously doubt that she would think 'divorce' or 'revenge', she's just not like that. I just don't want to hurt her. That's the main reason I would never willingly tell her. I'm not aware of any such NC laws as you mention and have never seriously ever thought about divorce. Like I said, I don't want to bring it up because I consider it over and I see absolutely NO REASON to bring it up. She doesn't need to know. This isn't some pattern I'm in and I don't do things like this on a regular basis and have never done so b4 and don't plan on doing so again. I really just think that it's better to just forget it and move on. I'm really not too worried she'd find out on her own. I don't see how she ever could. Nobody can prove anything anyway. OW's husband is a total ass but he doesn't know anything for sure and I'm about POSITIVE that OW would never spill all the beans. I think the best course of action is to just forget about it and only deal with it when and if I have to. You live in Cary don't you.....lol.....
Author FavoriteHeadache Posted June 28, 2007 Author Posted June 28, 2007 i am not trying to be mean. do you try to ask her if you all can have date night? do you do things for her to make her feel special or needed? does she do anything to make you feel special or needed like the other women did? i am just trying to talk sorry it made you mad. how was the movie ? and have you spoken or heard anything about the other women? lots of questions again!! Lol, you're not making me mad at all. Our relationship is the same as always and it isn't that bad. We go out all the time and she knows how special she is to me. None of that had anything to do with what happened with OW. I have not spoken to OW for 26 days now (I just counted it out). When we were ending it she said that she had to be able to tell her H truthfully that she doesn't talk to me anymore and so it is that we don't. She is seeing a counselor about everything (she already was prior to me and her being found out). The counselor told her not to have contact with me anymore even though she wanted to. Their marriage is a big mess and her husband is a real control freak and plays all sorts of head games and emotional crap with OW. Hopefully seeing the counselor will help her figure out what is what and how she should deal with her H. That's all I know at this point. I half expect to hear from her again one day but that means that I half expect not to as well. I don't see why she couldn't call or email and let me know what is going on but she feels strongly that she can't so I respect that. It's probably better actually that it is over completely. How are you doing anyway?
bish Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 Seems to me that this isn't the forum he should be in to get sympathy for his W. He came to get support for himself. If that makes him selfish than so be it. No, what makes him selfish is that he thinks that if his wife finds out, she is just suppose to deal with it. He wouldn't have any intention of trying to work on the marriage because he would be "beating" himself up. He already said: "If she didn't like it she could go away. Nothing left to say." Ya, thats a fine attitude for a supposed caring husband. The only support he is wanting is validation that his affair was justified. that being the case, I'll give him his validation. Dude, you have it so bad at home...of course you were right to betray your wife. You deserve all the self gratification you can get. I now understand why your wife should just get over what you did to her, she must be a horrible person. Otherwise, why would you wouldn't have cheated and thought to yourself she can just deal with it? I'm sorry man, you are justified.
bish Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 You are a sick judgemental dumbass. You're divorced aren't you? Just a guess, lol. Nope...not divorced. Nice try though.
bish Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 That's exactly what happens Bishy! If you can't treat your woman right she will look elsewhwere and you have nobody to blame but yourself. LOL...this coming from a man that utterly disrespected his wife in the worst way possible. Face it, you aren't treating your wife right. She doesn't know it. I feel sorry for her. She has a cheater for a husband. If only she knew, she could save herself and find someone decent.
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