mike5770 Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 It has been 2 weeks since my disaster with the woman who I thought I loved. Two weeks ago I was completely miserable at the thought of never being able to even be her friend again after I drunkenly screwed up in the bar I will not go to again for quite some time. I lamented on this site and I got back honest and replies I sometimes did not like...but it was like therapy! After having her out of my life for two weeks I tried to examine why this woman had such a hold over me. After I took her off of the Goddess Pedestal and examined her life I now realize that maybe this was the best thing to happen as she in all probability cheated on her fioncee with the new guy giving her rides home from the bar, and usually relationships right after a breakup or even before a breakup..(ie cheating) usually explode...so I feel I was let off easy. But you know...I wish her and Him the best, I hope it works out, and I hope they live happily ever after as now I am in a position to honestly say that as her hold on me is gone! I met a new girl on Friday night in another bar and am going out wit her..who knows where this will lead, but it is a new beginning..and maybe it won't last more than one date..but I am at Peace!!! So Thank You to everyone who helped me with replies! I am FREE! THE DEMONS ARE GONE!!! ALLELUJAH!!!!
funkybassplayer Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 good for you, i have had a bad break-up, but my last post 'high maintenace woman.................and me' really say s it all, and i have only been able to realise this about her, by writing my thoughts down here. Im gonna stay single, as i want a life change, im selling the house, etc, but this site has helped no end, from me being a sad unhappy guy to being well, clear in the head, and she has also jumped right into a relationship, which now i think, i really dont care anymore. !
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