New Hope Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Simple question to anyone who desires to answers, Does anybody think AGE truly makes a difference? An old ex of mine who is only 19 is having some 31 guy baby for example.....I felt bad for her because of her age but wish the best..what ya take on the Age difference...
Tony T Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 If two people are legal, compatible and want to be with each other...what's the harm? In my case, I go for younger women but worry myself sick that when I am 90 they will be 75 and WAY TOO OLD FOR ME!!!
Fun2BMe Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Men are several light years more immature than women so it's a win-win situation. Men like younger women for physical reasons, and women like older men for mental reasons.
kali420 Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 I used to think age didn't matter. My last gf made me change my mind. She is 37. In her young guy phase. She currently going out with a 23 yr old. Who is 8 years older than her son. She messed with my head. So, in my opinion, I say age matters. I don't think I'll ever date that much older or younger than me ever again.
lonelybird Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 I always think the mental or spiritual sides is very important for couples. Or the 19 y/o has a 31 y/o mentality, Or the 31 y/o has a 19 y/o mentality or spiritual level, Or somewhere in between. Or just physical attraction Women want to be cuddled, if she has a 31 y/o baby, she missed a major part of her nature. but maybe I am wrong
Author New Hope Posted June 21, 2007 Author Posted June 21, 2007 LonelyBird she got her mind eatin up...Before I found out she was pregant a month before she came running saying how much she loved me, which I brush off and laugh, then we stop talking because I didnt care no more..Than I found out she is having his kid...only 19 and his 31...damn shame...she left me for him, cause we got into long distance and look at her end result...She is going to learn the hardway now...
funkybassplayer Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 I seem to get on much better with girls younger then me. My lastest girl that im chatting to is 27, and im 41, but i do look younger, and have no kids etc, and she thinks its cool what i do (bass player) and we chat for hours! Some times younger women dont have as many crap times as older ones and seem to be a little more fun and stable. All my ex's have been 10 years or so younger and we have got on great, but my last one was only five years, aand she was the hardest one to be with.
Lizzie60 Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 doesn't matter if it's only physical... I've been (still see from time to time) a 23 yr old... I'm 54... so that's a 31 yr difference. In general, I see men 10 to 18 years younger. I don't date men my age. The 23 yr old I see from time to time.... asked to move with me... LOL But I see it differently in a long-term relationship... I don't believe it can work for many years, especially if the age gap is quite big.
alasia Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 I don't think age matters - although it depends what the reason is, I guess. If an older person chooses someone younger purely for looks then chances are the relationship won't last (IMO). My ex is 44 and I'm 23 (24 in August), I'm sure he went for me initially because he liked the look of me, but we did end up connecting because we had a lot in common - plus he was fairly immature for his age, so the age difference dind't matter much. It didn't work out but that's because he's an idiot, not because of his age He's been out with people 20 years younger than him (me and another ex), 10 years younger, 7 years older and the same age as him and they've all been fairly long term/serious relationships. I mostly see people my own age or a couple of years younger, but there have been a couple of men I've been out with that have been a lot older than me.
disgracian Posted June 22, 2007 Posted June 22, 2007 If two people are legal, compatible and want to be with each other...what's the harm? In my case, I go for younger women but worry myself sick that when I am 90 they will be 75 and WAY TOO OLD FOR ME!!! Just so I read that right, you're saying that a woman 15 years younger than you are would be too old for you and not the other way around? Cheers, D.
trent25 Posted June 22, 2007 Posted June 22, 2007 Anyone who tells you that age doesn't matter when it comes to dating young girls is the most ridicilous thing I have ever heard. Young girls don't know what they want, they are fickle, and are immature. If you think its going to last, you are high. No young girl (at least in the states), even thinks of something stable till 23 or so. There is only one game in town when hooking up with young chicks. You lay and you stray. You never look back. What the hell would you talk about with a 19 year old? I dated a 20 year old, and it was a struggle.
crazy_grl Posted June 22, 2007 Posted June 22, 2007 No young girl (at least in the states), even thinks of something stable till 23 or so. Wrong. Are you from the midwest or the south, trent. I'm guessing you're not, because there many girls are looking to get married ASAP out of high school. Im 25, and if I had to guess, I'd say 85-90% of the girls in my high school class are either married/engaged, have kids, or both. A couple have been married more than once already. Of course, just because they want to get married doesn't mean they should be. IMO, people shouldn't get married until they're 30. That'd get rid of a lot of divorce. If you're looking for a girl to marry, don't go looking in the 25 and younger set. There's a good chances the ones who do want to still have the '"marriage is a magic fair tale" mentality, which quickly ends in divorce. Of course, there are exceptions. I know one girl who's a year younger than me, and from what I can tell seems pretty together. She got married to a guy who was about 35. I think she was 20 or 21. They're divorced now, because he's a cheating idiot. I think they had close to the same maturity level, because he acted like a teenager. I figured it would end eventually once she started to get more mature, and he stayed at his present level (because I figure if somebody hasn't matured by age 35, chances are good they're not going to).
Author New Hope Posted June 23, 2007 Author Posted June 23, 2007 Man, younger or inexperience women get brain wash by older men.....thats why u have to let them run into their own doomsday train...If u read my post from earlier, my X is stupid, but hey you make ur bed, you lie in it..
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