Ilovemusic Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Hello I'm new and I would like to share my story and I hope to gain some insight. I'm sorry that this is so long My boyfriend and I get along great. We have minor spats like every couple does but nothing major. On wednesday, completley out of the blue, he tells me that he is no longer happy with me and he isnt sure that he wants to be in the relationship any longer. He said that I have become too controlling and that he can't stand the fact the I don't get along with his mother. I admit that I am not friends with his mom. He still lives with his parents and she is very controlling and I feel like I am dating him and his mom at times. As for the controlling issue: after a few nights of me not having a clue where he was I asked him to call me and tell me where he was going if he wasnt going to come to my place. Anyway, that night he changed his mind and said he was so sorry and he hadn't meant any of those things. Two nights later. It was the same story, he said he was unhappy and not sure he wanted to be in the relationship and he said he wanted a break to think things over. The next day he had once again changed his mind and said that he wa sorry and he didn't want to lose me and he wasnt going to change his mind anymore. And thats where we are right now. I'm very hurt and don't know if I should trust him or not because there were no warning signs leading up to this. Help!
mikefugaz Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Hello, what was your initial reaction to him, when he first told you about these feelings he had?
Author Ilovemusic Posted June 20, 2007 Author Posted June 20, 2007 I told him that I didn't understand why he was saying these thing so out of the blue and I told him that I would try my hardest to work on the things that he presented as problems
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