jcster Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 I explained to him why I was setting boundaries, and wanted to form a relationship slowly, following the proper stages of dating. Then, we jumped in the sack on the first date. I feel your pain - I do that too. I've been trying really hard to not jump the gun sex-wise, but I have a very hard time waiting - guess I'm just a horndog. I mean, if we didn't want to sleep with them, why would we date them? Don't fret - I don't think there's a perfect way to do any of this.
Author MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted June 21, 2007 Author Posted June 21, 2007 He text'd me asking how my day was going, so things seem to be pretty normal with him. If he texts me later, we'll talk. I hope I can keep a poker voice Should I tell him over the phone that I want to slow things down? Or, now that I know we probably won't have time to see each other for a week or two, should I just live my life, see this other guy? I will avoid the sack with guy#2 telling him up front that I'm not ready for anything serious or exclusive, let's just get to know each other. He will agree, as he has also said this to me before. Besides, it's a big party weekend in the little town near where I live and I'm working the bar and acting as bench warmer and beer cooler for the baseball team! Should be fun! Oh P.S. I believe I was very hormonal yesterday, a bit of anxiety there, dontcha think? At least I can laugh at myself today.
Mary3 Posted June 21, 2007 Posted June 21, 2007 I can admit that I am a highly sexual person and things do move quick. But I also realize if I do the deed so early I can't expect much more....just more .. sex... But in a relationship that person should be able to wait until you are ready for sex. ( Hopefully thats a reasonable time )
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