mizzjuicy2004 Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 iam in a situation that i dont know what to do! i ve been with my b.f for 3 1/2 years and we love each other soo much and i know it for sure. like about 1 month ago he told me that he wanted a break i said ok and was upset he said it wont be 4eva. then after 2 weeks he said he dont want to be with me and i ask him do you have another gf he said no. then i asked him about few more times and he said he likes some one but dnt know whats going on.. about 2 weeks later he i asked him again about his new gf. he said he has feelings 4 her and i asked is there any chance we will et back together and he said idk maybe. me and his mom are really close he loves me / like me a lot we talk i visit her and he knows all his family knows me and likes me. also his mom an dhim are really close and he tells her everything, but he dont tell her anithing about another girl when she askes. he tell me that he alwasy will be there for me and he still loves me and cares have feeling also, but he is tired tha ti nag him 2much and i alwasy want things my way. he works and dont really have time for me so few days ago i asked him ... if you dont have time for me cuz u alwasy work how u have time for her and he said i dont and she dont say nthig about it. my friends who know me and him and even who dont know sasy taht they fell that he lies abut about another girl . sometiomes i have a feeling that its a lie also. he changes his answers to the same question about her when i ask almost all the time. few days ago i seen his mom and we talked she said to me that she loves me and she told him that also and that she knoes that he loves me and he told her he needs time to breath. and she gave me good advice tha ti agree and so did my friends. 1. be his friend 2. dont nag him if he said no then dont aks 1000 times again about something 3. no maa what dont talk about his gf. if he does or if he dosent just act like she not there. i told him that i feel that when he has time to see me he just dont want to and he said yes, because when i do see him i alwasy say soemthing negative. and waht hurt me the most he said that " what you feel for me , i feel for the new girll" i dont really belive it cuz what i feel for him took me 3 years to feel and he knos her few months. well i guess thats it. i am new so sorry if i did sometihg wrong or post thsi somewhere else. p.s and if he didn tlove me and care and really had another g.f why whould he be answering my phone calls and calling me tim eto time, calling me back?? if anyone have an advice plzz let me know !!! thank you for reading
Author mizzjuicy2004 Posted June 18, 2007 Author Posted June 18, 2007 i bet this story is soo messed up that no one have a ny solutions ....
frygirl Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 I'm hesistant to reply because I don't think you will like my answer. You need to leave him alone. You need to stop quizzing him about his new girlfriend and interrogating his family to get information about him. It may be hard to hear but he broke up with you because he doesn't want to be with you any more. I'm sure he probably does have a new girlfriend that he is developing very strong and exciting new feelings for, but even if he doesn't it won't change the fact that he has chosen to leave you. He doesn't want to be your boyfriend anymore and your behavior now is only validating his decision. By not letting go, you are allowing yourself to take on the role of the "obsessed ex-grilfriend". You need to let him go and move on with your life without him.
Author mizzjuicy2004 Posted June 18, 2007 Author Posted June 18, 2007 thank you for your answers and opinion. well just few min ago i spoke to him and he talked to me liek b4 when i was his bf. he explained what he did yest. (he got a new tatoo) and how it looks and he said many people like it and i was liek who he said his friend who went with him and his roomate and people on the streets thats all. so i was lie cool. and then i said that now i want to see him more then b4 cuz of his new tatooo and he said u'l see it. then he said he was ironing his clouth so i was like what u ned to look hot? and he laugh and said that he wont say sometihng that he wanted to say but iwwas liek just say it and he said cuz u never know who you will see... so if he did have another gr then he would not say soemthing liek this. i want to let him go but soemething telling me not to. and its telling me jsut to give time timeee and space.
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