summer33 Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 How do you forget about someone that you are obsessed with and cannot stop thinking about... and you wish you could forget about them so bad but you just cant?!!? you try and you try but it doesnt work! when you've gone out with other guys but no one compares and you still cant stop thinking about him and it just friggin drives you crazy?? ARGH!!!!!!! help
Steveto Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 I truely feel for you..I am going through the same thing right now and I can't even get in touch with the person I have on my mind..The ball is literally in her court...Tried talking to other women...not the same..I just shake my head and say to myself that right now, there is nothing I can do, but wait...and the crap thing is..I work at home, so I have LOTS of time to think..if I had a busy job or something..at least you know..I would have some distraction..I can't even listen to music! every song is about."don't let you go" "love forever" or something about a lost love or broken heart..geez.. I think the hardest thing for me is not knowing..yes she is interested or no she isn't because that would settle up a whole wack of frustration. Steve
Lucky555 Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 I agree its hard to move on. Not knowing if the other person is still interested or not it difficult to, why can't people that like eachother "work together!" simple right? lol Anyways, i think its about closure but then again emotions suck! lol I told my self before that i never wanted to be this way, i had to cut my loses and move on. But hes still on my mind, even though i meet other guys I am too comparing them to him, and no one i have ever met compares to him. But i think one day i will fall again for someone. Maybe now isnt the time but it is time to let things be, UNLESS you can find the answer to your own question, Steve ask the girl if she wants to go out for Coffee or something along those lines sometime, then you will see if shes still interested it will give you closure if she doesn't then you will know at least and then its better to leave things alone and hope for the best but if your the guy, i dont care how independent or stubborn the girl is you have to ASK! thats my advise. For the poster of this, ugh it sucks i know but keep pressing on and over time maybe one day someone will come along.
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