Kyle323 Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 I've known her for about two months, and we went out two weeks ago. I'm not sure why, but I had the idea that she was just too good for me. I still thought I had a chance with her. The date itself was fine for about a half an hour, but then when we were supposed to go to a movie. She made up an excuse that she had to be somewhere else, and she said she was sorry and left. I figured that she realized the was too good for me and got out as soon as she could. Now she and I work at the same place, and a couple of days ago we bumped into eachother. She asked how I was doing, we talk a bit and, then as sincerely as she could she says that I'm easy to talk with, she can tell me things that she can't tell other people that she is close with and that I'm about her favorite person to be with. Then she says for me to call her sometime. I'm shocked. From what she said, could there be any other meaning than she wants to hook up with me?
amaysngrace Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 She asked how I was doing, we talk a bit and, then as sincerely as she could she says that I'm easy to talk with, she can tell me things that she can't tell other people that she is close with and that I'm about her favorite person to be with. Then she says for me to call her sometime. From what she said, could there be any other meaning than she wants to hook up with me? Yes. She may just want you as a friend. But I don't think that's all she wants. I think she's attracted to you. She doesn't think she's too good for you. On the contrary. If she did think that she wouldn't have gone on a date with you.
Steveto Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 Well.. Somewhere along the line you made the fatal mistake of being her friend..now not all women are like this, but most I have met are. They feel funny dating someone who is their friend...odd, I know, but then I know others who won't date someone unless they are friends first...not everyone is the same..that "friend" thing is a grey area to me. Steve
Krytellan Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 Yes. She may just want you as a friend. But I don't think that's all she wants. What??? No, no no. What she said to you is that she can talk to you about stuff... like one of the girls. You are nothing but "friend" now. I'm guessing by crippling yourself like you did on the date, you convinced yourself you weren't worthy and it came through loud and clear to her.
amaysngrace Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 What she said to you is that she can talk to you about stuff... like one of the girls. You are nothing but "friend" now. I'm guessing by crippling yourself like you did on the date, you convinced yourself you weren't worthy and it came through loud and clear to her. Friendship is a good place to start. You should be friends with the person you're involved with. And maybe his insecurities are keeping him away which is often what draws us in...he may seem elusive to her. Some people dig that.
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