monkey00 Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Do a thread search for this, youll find plenty of posts on this topic. As for this subject, I think most women would prefer a nice guy with an edge to them. If a woman just wants to have fun and not jump into a relationship, the nice guy is not for them. Basically a guy that's nice to them for the most part, but knows how to be a bad boy when/if he wants to - and the same goes for standing his ground & not putting up with BS.
StayClose Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 The whole "nice guy" thing is a misnomer. Essentially, a "nice guy" is any guy who thinks he's not successful enough with women. Few men would describe themselves as not nice, so any guy who is not satisfied with his love life calls himself a nice guy. A "jerk" is any guy who happens to be with a woman at the moment who has some some of identiyiable fault. There are many possible reasons why a guy might have trouble establishing romantic/sexual relationships: He may not fit the masculine stereotype women are attracted to and be perceived as "nerdy." He may lack basic social skills and repell women without being aware of it. He may have other issues that create hidden hostility toward women. He may not no how to groom himself properly or know that he needs nice clothes in good, clean condition. Self described nice guys need to re-examine all these things and look for what they need to change in themselves.
Yamaha Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 If a women calls you a "nice guy" she is saying you don't envoke any real emotion/passion in her. You are to vanilla for her taste, no chemistry.
CaliGuy Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 I guess im here to get some feedbacks bc i was referred to as too nice and the girl whom i like prefers bad boys. Go read: "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by David Glover. That will address all the issues you are having. It doesn't turn you into a "jerk" or "bad boy." It shows you how to be the confident, secure kind of guy women are attracted to and how to bury your insecurities for good.
halfarock Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 The whole "nice guy" thing is a misnomer. I think so too. In literary circles the term “nice” is often taken as a condescending term in a disinterested kind of way. It’s like when you took your drawing from school home, gave it to your mom, and she said, “That’s nice”. She wasn’t complimenting your drawing or you. She didn’t really care about what you drew but didn’t want to hurt your feelings. It’s the same way if a woman tells you, “Well, you’re a nice guy and all, but…” It means she’s not interested but doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. “too nice” and you are beyond her having feelings for. If you keep hearing this then obviously you aren’t man enough for the women you are meeting. Either you will have to find more desperate women or become more of a man.
hops5000 Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 I'm considered a nice guy..but yeah, I've had my fair share of chances to cheat on a gf...i've had my fair share of chances to cheat and almost did if it weren't for my girls faith in me and my commitment to her..but one time I came severely close, like...really, really, really close.... in all fairness..ladies won't admit it..but they think about it too...cheating that is.. but hey, to each their own right? just try to stay true and prove all the haters wrong..yes, ladies be sippin on that haterade too...
Mary3 Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 A woman will NOT cheat if you are treating her right. If she * feels * like cheating , she DUMPS you and then finds a better man Nuff said....
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