ladyb Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 What does it mean if a married man fixes his wedding ring while you're chatting with him? He was twirling it around his fingers for a second, like to jerk it because it was maybe too tight just to loosen it up... MEN ---> WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY IF YOU'RE DOING THAT IN FRONT OF A GIRL? And all you're doing was having a normal conversation....??
MarinaAquamarina Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 Perhaps you've answered your own question...it was too tight! If it was some subconscious thing on his part in order to let you know he was interested...well, don't even go there. As a very recent victim of having a cheating boyfriend, do not get involved!
Author ladyb Posted June 17, 2007 Author Posted June 17, 2007 Oh no...I was thinking because when we were having the conversation...he fixes his ring and I thought it was odd (you know when you get the feeling). I thought maybe he was either trying to tell me... hey this can be taken off anytime? I didnt know what that meant at the time but it could also mean...yeah its too tight or...Im married, stay away? Im not even showing interest so thats why I found it ODD...
Trialbyfire Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 Im married, stay away? I would think this is the most likely. If someone is hiding their ring, this is more the signal flag to sprint in the opposite direction.
Apple Blossom Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 I also think its more of a 'i'm married' sort of thing! Perhaps he found himself being attracted to you and twirling the ring reminded him of what he has at home, as well as being a signal to you that he is taken, and happy! lol! I really wouldn't think about it too much - as someone who overthinks everything, and tries to find meaning in everything, i know exactly what you mean, and why you're trying to figure out if it means anything. If it makes you happy to think that he was playing with it to show that he can take it off, namely intrested in you, then think it - but in a wistful sense. That is to say read into what you will, but at the same time be aware that you are doing just that - reading something into something that probably means nothing! And really don't go there with regards to starting an affair. Its just not worth it for anyone involved. But yup - just think whatever will bring a smile to your face about it, but keep in mind that it probably means nothing!
Author ladyb Posted June 17, 2007 Author Posted June 17, 2007 I also think its more of a 'i'm married' sort of thing! Perhaps he found himself being attracted to you and twirling the ring reminded him of what he has at home, as well as being a signal to you that he is taken, and happy! lol! I really wouldn't think about it too much - as someone who overthinks everything, and tries to find meaning in everything, i know exactly what you mean, and why you're trying to figure out if it means anything. If it makes you happy to think that he was playing with it to show that he can take it off, namely intrested in you, then think it - but in a wistful sense. That is to say read into what you will, but at the same time be aware that you are doing just that - reading something into something that probably means nothing! And really don't go there with regards to starting an affair. Its just not worth it for anyone involved. But yup - just think whatever will bring a smile to your face about it, but keep in mind that it probably means nothing! Hehe. RIGHT ON. Thanks! We think alike!
Krytellan Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 Dear lord people. Not everything has a huge meaning you know. I did it all the time... IT WAS A NERVOUS HABIT... MEANT NOTHING AT ALL (capitalized to fit in)
Steveto Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 ha.. I never heard a woman ask that before..I am not married and never was, but sometimes I DO wear my school ring on my marriage finger and yes, I do play with it while talking to people..sometimes it's too tight, but to me..it's one of two things....you are either boring or he is into you..sorta like when women play with their hair..does he sit back when he moves the ring or is he leaning towards you.? What does it mean when a guy is shaking his leg?..there was a guy on the stool next to me the other day talking to a girl and his leg was just going mad..."I" could feel it and our seats weren't connected..annoying as hell. Anyway..same thing..I really don't think the leg things tells you much of what he is thinking. I would say the ring thing is not saying anything. Steve
Kwo-ne'-she Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 Some people fiddle with their rings, without even thinking about it. I would be more inclined, if we HAVE to place meaning behind it, that he was showing you he is married, and to stay away. If a MM was interested, I would think he would be more apt to hide the ring, or not draw attention to it.
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