Rellek Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 I've been dating this girl now for only about 2 1/2 months (not long I know). I've never been in a real serious relationship until her and it was absolutely amazing. It completely turned my life around and I was happier than I've ever been in my life. I've never opened up to anyone like I did to her. I'm a junior in college and we started dating a month before the end of my sophomore year. At the time she was content with the whole distance idea because I was visiting her almost every weekend already and was coming home for summer. Now I'm moving 2 hours away for good in two weeks and I want to stay with her but she broke it off because she says that the weekdays when I can't see her will be too saddening for her. I just don't understand it... I feel like the happiness from the time that we would spend together on the weekends would completely outweigh the sadness from the time that we wouldn't be together. I just don't think I could let someone as important as her slip away without regretting it for the rest of my life. Am I being ridiculous? We are still basically seeing each other everyday and there's no doubt that we care for each other very much but the only thing breaking us apart is a 2 hour drive that I am willing to drive every weekend. What do I do?
LakesideDream Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 Rellek, What do you do? You thank your lucky stars that the lady was honest and shared her situation with you. The two of you are both young. Obviously she realizes that she wouldn't have her emotional needs met by a "part time" boyfriend. Consider yourself lucky to have met and enjoyed such an honest and forthright person!
Author Rellek Posted June 16, 2007 Author Posted June 16, 2007 Thanks for the advice. I'll definitely do my best to do that.
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