sexyvampire Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 my boyfriend cheated and abandoned me while im on my 7th month and a half of being pregnant with a girl from the office where we both work. what an ass... hate to see them at work together...and what a bitch..
nicki Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 Wow, he's a loser, and she's a loser to go after him when she knows you are carrying his baby. Maybe the ONLY reason this guy showed up in your life was to give you your precious baby. Believe me when I tell you that you will never ever love anyone more than that baby. Wait until he/she is born and you see him/her for the first time. The strength from that love changes you. You don't need that guy. He's proven that he won't be there for you. Now you can make other plans to include other people in your life. You will need support from good friends and family. You will be okay. I've done it alone, too. Honestly, it was a lot easier than if I had stayed with my ex. I had much more energy and focus for my children! Big hug to you. At work, don't pay your ex and that woman any attention. Just pat your tummy and think about the good times to come for you and your baby.
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 Make sure that you get child support, and don't let him weasel his way out of it.
Author sexyvampire Posted June 18, 2007 Author Posted June 18, 2007 thanks for the feedback..really helps..i feel a lot lighter now after much thinking and reflecting. but you know what... i just found out that they are living together already in a place near to mine... im loosing focus at times thinking of what he's doing but i keep thinking of my baby first. he still goes with me to my check up but we hardly talk about us. and he avoids talking about him and his bitch
mammax3 Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 I feel for you! I was in/am in a similar position. My H left me and our 2 children while I was 8 months pregnant with our 3rd child. We didn't work at the same place, I can't even imagine how terrible that must be, to see them every day. But, our baby is 3 weeks old now, and it's true, there's just so much love and you can't believe that your boyfriend would want to miss out on that baby! You'll just love him/her to pieces! It can be very very hard, so make sure that you've got some support around you. And, it's kinda good that he's going to the prenatals with you. Good luck! Stay strong and focussed. And stay healthy for your little babe.
Author sexyvampire Posted June 18, 2007 Author Posted June 18, 2007 before he left he asked me not to take the baby away from him and that he's not turning his back on our baby...and one time when he came to my place to get some of his stuff he said that we'll see after i give birt...according to him we need time and space to think things over but i don't think that a bitch is included in his idea of thinking things over.. thanks mammax3 for the feedback...this forum is really helping me.
Author sexyvampire Posted June 28, 2007 Author Posted June 28, 2007 right now my colleagues can see the biatch and my sperm donor together and they are asking me questions, i told them that we only had a big firght that is why we are not talking in the office but they see them together and of course they may wonder why..
JackJack Posted June 28, 2007 Posted June 28, 2007 right now my colleagues can see the biatch and my sperm donor together and they are asking me questions, i told them that we only had a big firght that is why we are not talking in the office but they see them together and of course they may wonder why.. Next time someone asks why they are together alot, tell them the truth. No sense in hiding it. Just tell them he cheated on you with her and then drop it. They both will indure humilation more than likely from office gossip about them both. You will just need to keep your chin up and go about your business.
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